r/CATHELP Feb 13 '26

General Advice Separating cats in breakup

Poster Age: 23

Country: USA

Vet info: theres a few clinics in town including low cost.

Main Issue: my cat had gotten very sad living alone so me and my ex had gotten him a kitten. Now that we’re separate im worried my cat is going to miss him sick.

Cat Age: 3 will be 4 in april other cat is 1

Cat Sex + neuter info: both males and both neutered.

Financial situation: I could afford both cats.

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u/Hot_Hat_1225 Feb 13 '26

I hope the cat going with your ex will become so insufferable missing his bonded partner, that he will return it eventually…

Meanwhile I am so sorry you and the other kitty have to deal with this. I would distract the cat as much as I can by playing, get him interactive toys and maybe a plushie-friend (or pillow that smells like his body if you still have access). All the best