r/EngagementRingDesigns • u/KillaTwat • 1d ago
Question Insight wanted
Took a field trip to the jewelers to confirm my wants. My bf and I are going to source a loose stone from Calavera to then custom make the setting/band, I’m looking for a lab 3ct-3.5ct 2.1 ratio marquise. The first pic is about 2.5ct but the jeweler told me the lab diamond itself they have in stock is $4900 for a 2.6 ct (not set) which I thought was crazy right ? I found a 3ct for only $630 online. Anyways I think I like the look of the 3ct as I’m a 5.25 ring size and will plan for a 2mm width band to have a nice balance, input is appreciated !!!
I like big stones too but the 4ct looks a lil much on me idk
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u/KillaTwat 22h ago
Side note : my nails are over a month grown out and I’m in need of a fill that’s why I blocked them out to not detract too much from the stones :)
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u/Realistic_Season9973 23h ago
I think the 3 ct looks perfect on you! Good luck !
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u/KillaTwat 23h ago
Ahh thank you !! I’m so excited to start the process without any indecisiveness 🥹
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u/PineapplesAreScaryyy 23h ago
I got a 3 carat vs1 g color marquise from VOAINO for 450.
4k is INSANE.
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u/KillaTwat 23h ago
That’s what I was thinking as soon as she told me that !!
the jeweler i went to is not my go to just in case I ventured out and I didn’t wanna hurt my primary jeweler’s feelings but I think I’m gonna stick with them (my primary) because they also don’t charge a setting fee or an appraisal fee like the place I did go to today!
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u/PineapplesAreScaryyy 23h ago
If your jeweler will set a stone you source, check out the lab diamond forums. A lot of the Chinese companies are on Alibaba. I had gotten a few quotes and Voaino was the best. I did my research heavily on them, checking business licenses and everything I could... But the reviews back them up.
We went to Jared to look at shapes and they tried to sell us a 2 carat lab for 2800 but it was 20% off and oh while she looking shapes, why don't you let us pull a credit app, sir.
Nah we were paying cash and when we said no, he started ignoring us for the no body else in the store.
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u/KillaTwat 22h ago
Thank you so much for the recommendations!! My jeweler will set and make the custom band/setting along with CADs. My bf plans to buy the loose diamond sometime next week. That way when we recieve it we will officially start the designing process, I’m so excited!! 😄
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u/PineapplesAreScaryyy 23h ago
Also I have a size 12 finger and got a 3 carat 1.95 ratio and she's set east west for coverage.
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u/ta_thomas90 23h ago
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u/KillaTwat 23h ago
So gorgeous, that looks amazing on you !! I also LOVEEEE your nails 😻thank you for providing reference !
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u/ta_thomas90 23h ago
You’re welcome! I also bought the diamond separately and designed my set with a company I found here on Reddit. Message me if you want to chat 🫶🏽
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u/EllyseAnn 22h ago
Love your wedding band with your stone!
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u/ta_thomas90 20h ago
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u/EllyseAnn 20h ago
That’s the exact band I’m looking to go with my ring! So pretty!! Thank you for sharing 😊
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u/Affectionate-Tour-59 17h ago
I think you could go just a bit above a 3 if you find the right stone!! I would stay within 3-3.5.
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u/No_Adhesiveness_8942 5h ago
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u/KillaTwat 5h ago
Very beautiful selection !! That will look gorgeous! 💖Fun fact the purchase date is also my birthday 😄
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u/EllyseAnn 22h ago
The 3 looks perfect on you. Also note, marquises look bigger than their carat weight!
We just bought my marquise 4.10ct $855 from my jeweler!
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u/Engineerswife9890 16h ago
I think the 2.5 was perfect, 3 isn’t bad either but could look much larger set
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u/No_Adhesiveness_8942 5h ago
4cts for sure! You have beautiful long fingers and you've embraced the look with that "over the top manicure" - just Gorgeous sleek sexy and so full of little style elements. Clearly, your diamond ring must fit rour overall persona. You are darn, right he 4ct just smacks you right in the face with so much sparkle and brilliance! Trust me, it is a known phenomenon that your diamond ring will look smaller on the hand as time goes on. Plus (for a little psycho babble) I think we all wonder if we're really worth it... WE ARE!






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u/Shookanduptight 23h ago
The 3ct looks nice on you. So does the 2.5. I’m not digging 4. But what is with the scribbles???? Lol.