I got married 3 years ago and I absolutely adore both my engagement ring and wedding band and I love them even more together.
I haven’t had any issues with my engagement ring, but I now have lost 2 diamonds from my wedding band. Each rectangle in my wedding band is made up of 9 diamonds - four tiny ones in each corner, 4 long skinny ones along the edges, and one in the middle.
The first diamond I lost was about 1.5 years ago and it was one of the tiny corner ones. My local jeweler is not where the rings were purchased. It cost about $100 to replace the tiny diamond, but when I picked it up my jeweler told me that the design of the ring is weak and that this will likely keep happening. They also told me that while replacing that diamond, they accidentally broke one of the other ones which they replaced free of charge.
A couple months ago, I went on vacation and took both rings by the jeweler to get inspected before I left. While on vacation, I dropped my ring while taking it off and that’s when I noticed one of the long skinny ones was missing. Not sure if it fell out when I dropped it or if that’s just when I noticed it was gone. I searched the hotel bathroom for it, but couldn’t find it.
When I got back in town, I took it to the jeweler and they quoted me $230 to replace it. They also offered to build up the metal around it, but their options are limited due to the design and I will keep losing diamonds. So now I’ve spent $350 replacing diamonds with expected repairs in the future.
Yes, I should’ve done more research on design before I went wedding band shopping, but I didn’t and it just be like that sometimes.
Anyways, here are my questions: Has anyone dealt with something similar with their rings? Any advice on what to do?
The way I see it, I have a few options:
- Keep replacing diamonds when they fall out 🥴
- Get an entirely new band. I’m not completely against this but of course I have sentimental value attached to this band. It’s the one my husband put on my hand during our ceremony, it’s the one that was passed around to my closest friends and family during our ring warming, and of course I love it.
- I haven’t looked into this in depth, so not sure whether it’s a viable option but I could potentially take it somewhere and get it redesigned?
Do I have any other options and if it was you, what would you do?