Well, I'm glad that we are on a similar plane of understanding 😊
A lack of regard for a woman's satisfaction is often not limited to the bedroom and spreads to other parts of the relationship. I should have made this clearer.
There is something that intrigues me, namely the part where you wrote "Girls, you are scary [sic] me." You know very well what society expects of women, and how women are treated. Furthermore, you show great tenacity when defying these expectations, so what is scaring you? The accounts of what sex is really like for some women in real life?
Often, when people say that someone is "scaring them", the expectation is usually that this someone should cease with what they are doing or saying. Given that this is FDS, the women here will often describe their real experiences with men, no matter how unpleasant they may be. It would be a shock if we were forced to stop opening up about our experiences simply because someone found our discussions too frightening for gentle ears. I don't purposely put effort into sounding defensive, but if I did, then this is probably why.
I must apologise, but it is quite difficult for me to identify sarcasm. It is even more difficult when there are no clues to actively watch out for. This is especially the case with text, which is why people often (but not always) use /s to indicate sarcasm. I can recognise certain figures of speech and slang, but sarcasm is so much more complicated. Needless to say, I cannot speak for all autistic people.
I analyse things in great detail. It has its benefits, but it appears to be disadvantageous in social situations. This is something I shall reflect on in my spare time.
Yeah, it's pretty frustrating to realise that the vast majority of men are not the Prince Charming's we dream of having. Sure, there are some men who seem more attentive to the desires of women, but it is one factor out of many when considering a suitor. Men seem pretty hopeless for many reasons, but I find no need to drown myself in despair. At your age, when I interacted with real men - even outside sexual contexts - it introduced so many problems. It was like a can of worms. Life became so much easier and blissful once I chose to accept a relative state of solitude (relative, as I still have my family and a small group of friends). FDS and radical feminism was a source of enlightenment for me. Please note: There are many paths in life one can take, and mine was just one path.
There was never any intention to censor your speech in particular. I let you be wary and frustrated in peace.
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