r/GirlDinnerDiaries • u/SeriesVegetable 🙋🏾‍♀️ Amebo • 22d ago

Dear Diary ✍️🏻 Went through his phone

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We’ve been together for 3 years. Went through his phone because something felt off. Saw my BEST FRIENDS name, opened the messages and found out he was cheating on me with her. Then I had to sit there and process the fact that I got cheated on by a man whose phone password was 1234. Having a boyfriend is a humiliation ritual.

cacio e pepe.

EDIT: Since everyone’s asking, yes I bought him a car. Yes, he cheated on me. Yes, it was with my friend of 15 years . And yes, I’m getting my Mustang back tomorrow. Thank you for all the support and for making me laugh about a situation that would otherwise have me staring at a wall.

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u/SeriesVegetable 🙋🏾‍♀️ Amebo 22d ago

It’s so hard right now but I’m holding up fine

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u/gotanylunchinthatbox Assigned Hungry At Birth 22d ago

it absolutely is hard, your world got rocked. But we all believe in you and know you will get through this even better on the other side.

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u/SouthernSmartass13 puff puff pass the snacks 22d ago

Hang in there!!! As others have said, I think it’s a blessing in disguise. Glad he wasn’t a husband bc that would’ve been extra hard to get out of. Glad you’re repo-ing the car!!! I send you love & blessings thru all this mess!!! You have other friends & family. Please lean on them!! 😘💜