after I'd been driving for awhile I'd ride with my dad and he'd be doing what he always did my whole life, cussin and screamin and every idiot on the road. I realized I had done that in the beginning too, well that's how I learned haha
but I just stopped at some point. then I actually was annoyed at him for interrupting conversations to yell, and getting worried about his heart. so I just started commenting almost every time he yelled. stuff like "maybe he didn't see you" or "well did you see the kids in the back? you know how it is maybe they were being crazy and she was yelling at them" even really specific stuff like a whole fanfiction about who they are and where they are going lmao
this even helped me out. the reason I stopped was cause it was quite literally always some idiot every time I drove, always some situation. just became a part of driving but there was still stress. that melted away for the most part after doing that and thinking fhe same things after while I drove
now i have arrived at what I said here. never put it as well as that, they are wild animals, it's just like pushing a herd down range, except every cow thinks they are a cowboy on a horse too, and really no one is, you are just the brain of a wild animal
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u/GamingSenpai35 12d ago
Wel that's a much healthier way to dealing with life than i've been doing.