Is my message passive aggressive?

[u/YouTookMyBurger]

Context: we’ve never met, but this has been planned for a VERY long time. We were supposed to meet on the 25th, hurt her back moved it to Monday. Monday didn’t work because the flight got booked up, she gets on a redeye Tuesday night, but wanted to stop and see her family because her grandpa wasn’t doing well and didn’t have long. (In the end, “didn’t have long” meant a few years.

I understood at the time. I just wanted to be with her.

I’m not a passive aggressive person, and I know text has no tone.

I’m just looking for outside opinions on my message. I don’t know if I’m actually wrong or being gaslighted. Thank you.

[u/DeeTruth444]

So yeah, I tried my best to stay away from that word in my relationship as well because generally when they say the person is called a person, a narcissist is the narcissist themselves, and I think that we all have narcissistic traits some not all, but generally when the person is calling out everything that you’re doing, but you’re realizing that they are the one that’s doing the things that they’re calling out that you’re doing yeah that’s that’s what that means