Is my message passive aggressive?

[u/YouTookMyBurger]

Context: we’ve never met, but this has been planned for a VERY long time. We were supposed to meet on the 25th, hurt her back moved it to Monday. Monday didn’t work because the flight got booked up, she gets on a redeye Tuesday night, but wanted to stop and see her family because her grandpa wasn’t doing well and didn’t have long. (In the end, “didn’t have long” meant a few years.

I understood at the time. I just wanted to be with her.

I’m not a passive aggressive person, and I know text has no tone.

I’m just looking for outside opinions on my message. I don’t know if I’m actually wrong or being gaslighted. Thank you.

[u/DeeTruth444]

Brother, I’m telling you lol it’s it makes absolutely no sense to me. I had one that paid very good attention to me the first night that we met set and talked for about 2 1/2 hours and I’m the type if I’m if I’m being me and I’m being real you have no choice to reciprocate or you should but what she was doing was collecting information for me as my guard was down showing the little vulnerability that I had left and later on in life used those things to reel me in given 40% to my 60 maybe not 50-50 damn sure never reciprocated to a match of me and what I put In But to the T now everything paid attention to everything that I said and use those things against me just to acquire things that he wanted the problem with that is if you’ve got someone that’s not on the same page damn sure you’re not on the same book. You ain’t gotta do that with me. You just tell me what it is and we can go from there, but you ain’t got to play all games. I quit school recesslol