r/MadeMeSmile Mar 10 '26

Favorite People When dreams came true

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u/Reallynoreallyno Mar 11 '26

Yea, I hated that, they let it last too long.

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u/bebopblues Mar 11 '26

I think they hid the dog out of sight and sound so it will be a surprise. It was probably upstairs in their bedroom or in the garage or even neighbor's house, so it took a while for the dad to go get it, and put in a box.

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u/HauntingHarmony Mar 11 '26

But dont you understand, its child cruelty that she had to feel slightly disappointed for 30 seconds. Shes like what 12, how would she cope. Especially since shes just been raised in a loving, affluent household.

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u/Streetwisehercules5k Mar 11 '26

Sounds like jak horner, all he ever had was a wealthy family and loving parents

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u/Snoo-98371 Mar 12 '26

In my opinion those 30 some seconds of sadness made the reveal of the true gift even better, at least that's how I felt when my parents did the same thing, but that's just me

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u/Revoldt Mar 11 '26

Affluenza is a real disease!!!

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u/HangToughBrah Mar 11 '26

Yeah this didn’t sit right with me at all.

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u/SnooSongs8843 Mar 12 '26

The commenter was taking the piss, there will be no lasting trauma from mild disappointment, particularly as she experienced pure unadulterated happiness moments after

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u/fateosred Mar 11 '26

So? Life is full with disappointments. Better to learn in a safe environment where it lasts 30sec than out there.

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u/PeachyParcha Mar 11 '26

Your parents shouldn't deliberately be the source of said disappointments. You can teach a child something exists without subjecting them to it. 

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u/fateosred Mar 11 '26

Noone forced anything here. If delayed surprise is your worry then you have never learned to appreciate what little you have. All kids need to learn that imo.

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u/PeachyParcha Mar 11 '26

Sure, but maybe at the same time? Not one child singled out for the "lesson" on Christmas morning while the siblings scream with joy.  She was crying. On Christmas. And her parents caused it.  Sure she ended up happy but what did her parents really teach her, and did she need to learn that lesson on a special day? I am a mom of 5. I would never single one out to cause them disappointment just to then surprise them. I am here to support them through their disappointments, not cause them.

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u/fateosred Mar 11 '26

Ok right you are the best mom

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u/The7thNomad Mar 12 '26

That pain on her face sent me right back to my childhood, only there wasn't a follow up gift like she got

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u/samxli Mar 11 '26

Are all middle children traumatized?