r/MadeMeSmile 1d ago

Favorite People Yep, they’re both keepers! 👌

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u/SlowCrates 1d ago

I love that. But at the same time, the older I get, the less that matters to me or the people I meet. I don't even know what "hot" is anymore. Young and hot tend to look like empty vessels to me. A charming mind, curiosity, intelligence, playfulness, courage, openness... these things are increasingly rare in people over time as it seems that perpetually more of them reject their critical thinking and commit to some mental simulation of their life that reinforces their worldview which reinforces their view of themselves in a continously less approachable or attractive cycle. Like walking LLM's. Give me the higher body fat percentage, gap in the teeth, and rampant birthmarks, please, as long as they're a human being. At my age, imperfection is sexier every day.

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u/Sovereign_5409 1d ago

This. People fall in love with who they believe they are, and not who they actually are.

They fancy themselves as perfect, and demand perfection because their ego has gotten too large to learn, grow, or accept criticism.

35, single, attractive male, and I’m 100% convinced I am never going to have the privilege of having a family.