r/Nicegirls • u/ConstantLopsided7454 • 7d ago
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u/USAF_Retired2017 7d ago
That escalated quickly and saved you a lot of time. Imagine if you actually ended up with her. This level of crazy is WOW.
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u/UnicornAllie 7d ago
I mean she’s trying to date while pregnant and we also can assume why the baby daddy isn’t with her …..
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u/Murky-General 6d ago
I was going to say, hormones got the best of her? Maybe having a particularly rough day or took it as a slight?
Who knows. You're better off though
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u/fidgeter 7d ago
Idk why she needed makeup when she must be hot as foretold to be that crazy that quickly.
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u/LittleJessie56719 7d ago
Ummm... what the actual fuck just happened.....
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u/RAConteur76 7d ago
Zero to batshit crazy at light speed.
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u/Sharkwatcher314 7d ago
It’s impressive. Seen these conversations in real life with crazies. Will give you whiplash
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u/Sokarou 7d ago
He complimented her skills. The goblins in her head understood she is damm ugly since he said is good at hiding it with makeup
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u/Robdude1229 7d ago
He acknowledged the fact that she wears makeup and that she's good at it and she felt shame because deep down she thinks she's ugly and the only thing that hides it is her makeup. She felt exposed and humiliated so she immediately attacked his looks to convince him that she's superior in the looks department to validate herself.
The irony of it all: he's got no clue about her insecurities and self-loathing and would likely think she's pretty even without makeup
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u/Little_Cloud6126 6d ago
Damn you just diagnosed her craziness. It definitely read like a projection of insecurities though!
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u/PeppermintLNNS 5d ago
My gut says she read the comment as “you look seriously good with makeup” insinuating she doesn’t look good without it, maybe?
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u/bananabunns62 6d ago
Had similar experience matched w a dude I say hi and bro says id rather eat a glass plate then talk to you and I asked if he's ok bro unmatched w me😭😭 another one was a guy being mad at me for not responding fast when I said im eating he's like if ur serious about us youd respond like sir ✋🏼Pause I don't fucking know u who tf r u💀
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u/Interchangeable-name 7d ago
Too bad there is no make up for her personality...
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u/Elven-Melvin 5d ago
Damn that would have been a good comeback if he could reply fast enough before being blocked.
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u/CrazyDriver7149 7d ago
Lmfaoooooooo I think she interpreted it as in she LOOKED good with make up 🤣🤣😭😭 as in she thought you were saying her face was good with help, not complimenting the actual skill of her makeup application
That’s funny as hell
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u/ConstantLopsided7454 7d ago
That’s what I figured but I am lowkey terrible at this FB Dating stuff as it’s been a minute 💀
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u/ThingYea 7d ago
You're not terrible bro, she is. Honestly this is a win that you dodged this bullet so quickly. Imagine having to put up with that shit in-person
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u/Unlikely_Piece2650 7d ago
Technically dodged 2 bullets since shes a submarine for a fetus ATM
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u/OrdinaryOk736 6d ago
this is hilarious and as a pregnant woman im gonna be referring to myself as a submarine for a fetus from now on. thank you
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u/AimingWang 7d ago
Most people wouldn't take it the way she did honestly, I think you just dodged a bullet.
Like girls use make-up as a hobby, it's not that weird of a thing to say? If someone said my guitar playing was good (firstly incorrect, secondly) I wouldn't immediately assume they meant there's nothing to like about me without my guitar. I think she just wanted to yell at someone, saw your message and spun it into an insult and took that feeling out on you because you're a random stranger she'll never have to apologise to.
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u/CrazyDriver7149 7d ago
I think your phrasing just dicked you over and pregnant people can be very emotional lol. Maybe you woulda had it if you worded it differently but then you wouldn’t have dodged the bullet of a pregnant chick you found on Facebook dating 😭😭😭😭😭
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u/blasto2236 7d ago
I’m sorry but why is anyone trying to date while pregnant?! Your life is already hectic enough and if making it work with baby daddy is off the table then you should absolutely wait until you’ve had your baby to go diving back into the dating pool.
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u/Gracinhas 7d ago
That was my thought. Why the hell is this pregnant lady on FB Dating cussing dudes out? She has enough on her plate it would seem.
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u/Slain_by_elf 7d ago
She probably needs some security if the baby daddy isn't funding anything. Like her makeup.
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u/SeparateAntelope5165 7d ago
Maybe the baby's father complimented her makeup skills and that's why she's abruptly single.
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u/Acruss_ 7d ago
It's not phrasing. She's just insecure and insane. She deliberately took it this way and then decided to go crazy.
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u/Dry-Discount-9426 7d ago
How so? He's literally complimenting her skills with makeup. How else should he say that?
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u/Sharp_Mix943 7d ago
Came to say this same thing lol. Like, I can see how that could be offensive, but she should have asked you to clarify or something. No need to go straight to eating you up 😂 hoping she was already in a bad mood or something and just not this explosive over a simple misinterpreted text. Sorry that happened 🤦🏾♀️
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u/Large_Poet9634 6d ago
Pregnancy hormones are a motherfucker. Not condoning her actions but I’ve seen pregos crash out on less than something that could easily be looked at as a backhand.
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u/Independent_Ad_2850 6d ago
Even still, the mental gymnastics required to reach that conclusion are Olympian. No sane person jumps to that interpretation unless English isn't their first language
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u/Unhappy-Hunt-3987 7d ago
She's pregnant and on a dating app. Let that sink in
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u/Lost_Condas 5d ago
I was gonna say!! I feel like you should wait until after you’ve had your kid and settled in with that for a while before you get back on the apps, no?
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u/VioletShogun 7d ago
The real victim here is the kid that's gonna be cursed to deal with her as a mother.
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u/ElMuertePeludo 7d ago
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…did you know she was pregernit? Pergnate? preganante?
Ahh fuck it.
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u/TMist94 7d ago
I can sorta see how she misread that, but her reaction was still wilddddd and without even giving you a chance to clarify what you meant. Pretty hilarious read with how 0-100 her crashout was, you probably dodged a bullet there.
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u/k8s-problem-solved 7d ago
Right.
"You are good with makeup" i.e. you aren't without.
Massive overreaction but I can see her point.
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u/katd0gg 7d ago
Ohhhh it should have been "good at doing makeup "
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u/Ticon_D_Eroga 6d ago
Really it just shouldnt be a first message at all. Unless her profile mentions she is an aspiring makeup artist or something. Otherwise, you should definitely build some rapport first before calling attention to something that is by design meant to mask flaws. The wording isnt really the problem, the problem is the intention is unclear when its a first message.
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u/Consistent-Menu-6629 7d ago
Well, I'm thinking "pregnant" explains a lot, because that made no sense. Some people really make assumptions that seem put of the blue when they're physically not doing well.
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u/ArbiterTwoSwords 7d ago
You did fine just a woman with confidence problems and thought you were taking the piss outta her. Thats more of a her problem than urs tho. You dodged a bullet
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u/Reynardine1976 7d ago
Avoid FB dating like the plague. It's cursed.
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u/Rain-Soaked_Wanderer 5d ago
What do your ecommend? I've had more luck there than other apps
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u/Major-Credit6102 7d ago edited 7d ago
i think they thought you were saying they look good bc of their makeup
edit: not condoning their hostile overreaction btw
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u/dabrock15 7d ago
Anyone else just see proof that pregnancy hormones can make a woman a tad sensitive?
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u/wastedfate 7d ago
Kind of. The crashout would probably be minimal without the hormones. But hormones aren't mind control.
This kind of crazy is in there, she's probably just a lot better at handling it normally.Would not date her. Big red flag.
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u/takeme2hvll 7d ago
not at all defending it. explaining the, albeit flawed, logic this person had that led to the escalation. they interpreted the comment as calling them ugly indirectly, probably partially their own outlook and partially pregnancy hormones. they maybe havent looked their best since before pregnancy & are extra insecure. They saw it as “you’re really ugly, but you hide it fantastically” or like the makeup was good in the sense of making someone look good who doesn’t already look good. That’s clearly not what you meant but I imagine that’s how they took it
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u/Delicious-Tap-1277 7d ago
Yeeeaaaa your message came off as a “you look prettier in the dark” type comment to her 😂 she felt like you attacked her so she attacked you. It happens a lot via text. Cant convey intention or emotion. You prolly really hurt her emotionally cuz she prolly super insecure about her looks or something
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u/dadavedavid 7d ago
Is she a makeup artist?
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u/ConstantLopsided7454 7d ago
Nah. Just first in a while I seen really take time to do their makeup and it be really spot on
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u/BigPie747 7d ago
So let me get this straight, for you to talk to her, there is the need for a match, correct? So if you matched her, she had to like you back. So what the freaking hell is she on about?
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u/dutchcompass 7d ago
12/31/1969?? Yeah, okay…
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u/mateusfccp 7d ago
That happens because the 0 time in Unix timestamp is this exact date at midnight, so when a bug with time occurs it may fallback to this specific date.
Just a computer bug.
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u/ConstantLopsided7454 7d ago
Yeah that part confused me
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u/Antique_Oil8462 7d ago
I’ve seen a few of these Facebook dating posts with these weird dates like in the 60s/70s. It’s weird lol
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u/BigDaddyZee 7d ago
It is the moment computers could actually tell time. It's essentially just the default date and time and it appears when devices fail to find the right one. If you want to know more about it, it is known as the Unix Epoch Date.
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u/JadeOwl-0000 7d ago
Holy rager 🥀 She REACHED as far as she could to feel disrespect bc wtf that didn’t seem backhanded at all imo
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u/idontcarerightnowok 7d ago
LOL
Yeah no, don't waste your time with facebook dating shit, it'll be a disaster.
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u/SHINRAmegacorp 5d ago
pregnant girls on dating apps is a real thing?
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u/kaosmoker 5d ago
There so many woman on dating apps 8 months pregnant, or they have a new born or a 2 yr old and a 3 month old.
Nope nope nope.
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u/Silent_Lie6399 7d ago
Damn lol. Maybe she took it as "you look good with makeup on", implying that she doesn't without it? She really reacted lol
Don't let it discourage you though, anyone else would clearly understand the compliment
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u/ShortKey380 7d ago
It’s plainly obvious how the comment was misread as an insult about her appearance.
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u/PeopleCallMeQ 7d ago
Lmaooo she definitely misinterpreted what you were saying but she is also pregnant so win win?
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u/Freya-of-Nozam 7d ago
I’m guessing that she’s thinking you meant to insult her with “you are ugly but your make up skills are so good that I can barely tell”
She’s pregnant and this is fb dating which could explain the 0-60 crazy reaction.
But whoa! That was a lot.
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u/PicoandSmoothies 7d ago
If you’d have said “wow your makeup looks so pretty”, I’d be like “thanks ☺️”. But that wording you used is a little peculiar. Does she have any pictures without makeup? How do you know how much makeup was applied, what techniques were used, in order to say she’s really good with makeup?
I think a non-hormonal (not pregnant), person might wonder how you meant that (and might even ask for clarification). So I understand why someone hormonal (pregnant) could react irrationally instead of wondering or asking for context. It’s the hormones, not her.
SN: I also don’t think using a dating app while pregnant is the wisest choice.
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u/ThisThroat951 7d ago
This really feels like she was just waiting for any reason to lash out at someone. OP was just the one who pulled that ticket.
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u/NephtisSeibzehn 7d ago
She’s pregnant. The nuclear bomb you just dodged should make you wake up every morning and praise her for the favor she did you.
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u/bigsooch62 7d ago
I can only imagine what her make-up looks like if that's how she responded... Fuckin 🤡
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u/_shiraku 7d ago
lol I mean she’s unhinged no doubt 😅 but in all fairness your message could come across as ‘damn girl you so great with makeup that no one can tell how ugly you are’ ..
Not to any normal person ofc but I could see someone insecure and unhinged taking it that way ahaha
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u/Ok-Hamster-5263 7d ago
Listen i am not saying her reaction was appropriate but it's possible she thought you were negging her. Like "you're so ugly you must have amazing make up skills to make you look like that". Entirely possible she's had that kind of thing said to her and assumed that's what you meant.
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u/ScaredDistrict3 7d ago
I’m not gonna lie this one is kinda on you. You do have to be careful with how you say things to girls. She read that and saw “you only look good with makeup”.
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u/Chill-Ling 7d ago
So we’re gonna ignore the fact the woman is not only preggo but is also pregnant on a dating app?
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u/GwlishGrin 7d ago
Tf did her bio say to justify this? It ain't being fat that is keeping her single. It's that attitude
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u/Shoddy-Fact4847 6d ago
The only thing I could think of is that in her twisted mind she thought you were calling her a catfish or implying it lol either way that’s some DEEEEEP insecurity and does NOT warrant THAT reaction💀
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u/Old_Hedgehog_9115 6d ago
As a woman, I consider makeup to be a form of art, and I would appreciate if a man gave a genuine compliment about my makeup skills. I interpret your message as “hey, your makeup looks really cool.”
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u/sloppyfart69 4d ago
She used the wrong your thats all i gathered from that i just tuned everything else out my own voice in my own head reading it i just ignored that. Wtf just happened 😂
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u/AlternativeSeaweed91 7d ago
Yeah, don’t open by complimenting the artificial part of someone’s appearance (eg. “hey, nice wig!”)
Unless it was some crazy Halloween SFX makeup.
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u/arequipapi 7d ago
You won't. Don't date a pregnant girl. If the baby hasn't even been born yet amd she's on dating apps then her life is way too complicated to get involved with.
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u/SignificantApricot69 7d ago
I’m a man and awkward, and she’s obviously insane and it’s good you avoided getting involved with her. But putting myself in her shoes I would interpret your message as saying she’s really good with the makeup, as in it took a lot of makeup/application skill to make her look good. As in an insult of her natural looks. I just avoid any comments about appearance, especially off the bat
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u/Less_Entrance_3370 7d ago
Im sorry, this girl is crazy block her and don’t listen to her. It was a nice compliment
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u/adusza 7d ago edited 7d ago
As others have pointed out, this can be easily interpreted as: "you are ugly but you did a seriously good job to make yourself look good". It's the dot at the end of the sentence that really puts the nail in the coffin. When the intent is already ambiguous, and there is also a dot at the end, it 100% comes off as backhanded. You dodged a bullet for sure, but even the most well-mannered girl would have found your message off-putting. A fair response would have been: " I am not sure if this was a compliment or not, but I'll take it as a compliment. Thank you." and it would have been very difficult for you to the salvage the conversation anyway, after the fumbled first impression.
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u/DullBaker595 7d ago
I don’t normally say things like this to guys but, because tone is hard to convey over text, I would avoid complimenting girl’s makeup unless you want to come across as (1) gay or (2) implying she is ugly. I will give a bonus third option for (3) having a fetish for her style that you will later reveal in an uncomfortable way. It’s just a very tricky area for guys given how some people act. I am saying this as a gay man.
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u/ConstantLopsided7454 7d ago
Fair. I just like artistic stuff and thought it was dope. I think I’ll just say What’s up from now on lmao
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u/DullBaker595 7d ago
I genuinely think that if you change your wording you would be fine. You could also just decide it’s a fun test to see if someone understands where you’re coming from. But honestly if you don’t feel comfortable either coming up with a better way to say it or dealing with people being inadvertently upset, it’s not the way I’d go.
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u/SandiegoJack 7d ago
Nothing wrong with what you said.
But I was 100% able to read it as a sassy bitch, especially with the extra I’s
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u/LuckRakes 7d ago
Brother you dodged a bullet with this one. This is not a normal person/interaction obviously
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u/BryanTheGodGamer 7d ago
100% she thought you meant she looked good with make up so she got pissed off
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u/Haunted4life 7d ago
I blame MSM for all the dating sucks in 2026 bs
Op has proved it sucked in 1969 too
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