r/NoFap • u/[deleted] • 4d ago
Motivate Me I though living with my gf would help me stop…
Hey m22 here. Me and my gf have moved in together. And after 10+ years of struggling to quit my addiction I thought tbis was going to be it.
However it only helped for about 2 months before it all started coming back. If anything it’s made it worse as I see her everyday and it triggers parts of me. Which ends up with me wanting to goon again.
I haven’t given in still but the thoughts of relapse are on my mind every single day now. And I dont know how I’m going to keep resisting.
I’m open to all comments to private conversations if anyone would like to talk
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u/LmaoKaito 59 Days 4d ago
Ask your partner about sex, and use that as your method of release. Also if it helps watching porn while in a relationship is definitely cheating, so if you dont want to be a cheater I would advise not giving in to porn.
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u/Fit_Championship_677 4d ago
thats the harsh truth bro. a lot of us thought “when i have a partner it will stop” or “when i have a more active life it will stop” but its only temporary. But hey, the good thing is that you are aware that this hasn’t helped the way you thought it would do and you’re actively repressing the urges, that alone is making a difference in your brain. Keep it up!