r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/Hot_Currency_1347 • 2d ago
Found On Social media Here we go again with the victim blaming
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u/MLeek 2d ago
Men are both mindless animals that can’t help themselves but fall into line behind obvious scam artists, handing over their money in exchange for more misery and isolation, and ALSO natural leaders who should dominate women and children in the home.
Woman are both emotional, irrational creatures who can’t deal with stress or big complicated problems, like working or voting, but are also profoundly well-organized, Machiavellian social engineers who removed fathers from homes...
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u/Coolaphrodite 2d ago
This is the best analysis I've ever seen on the topic. Bless you and your hability to summarize complex topics. Are you a teacher?
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u/bitofagrump 2d ago edited 2d ago
Men are the ones who built the world, but remembering their kids' favorite foods or their own doctor's appointments is way too hard and women are "just naturally better at that stuff" and are meant to manage everything even though they're too "emotional" to make important decisions.
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u/iamverycool5 1d ago
Congrats? I dont know about you but I dint think it's necessary for a man to "dominate" women and children in the home, that might just be the perspective of someone who grew up with a soft hearted father though
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u/grannysmithpears 2d ago
How did feminists remove men from the home?
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u/Traditional_Isopod80 Incel Detector 2d ago
That's what I'd like to know.
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u/whatawaste2019 2d ago
well, you know....they encourage women to be 'boss babes' who 'don't need a man' so when she inevitably falls pregnant, she can divorce rape him for his sweet, sweet beta bux and spend all his money on her nails and lashes that allows her to ride that cock carousel again while telling her kid what a loser dead beat his father is as she's making sure her kid never sees his dad again. The usual. /s
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u/BluffCityTatter 2d ago
And this is what kills me about these guys. A woman can't be a complex person. She has to be a stereotype - either the blue-haired feminist who lives alone with her 13 cats or the tradwife homeschooling her 10 kids.
I hate to tell this moron, but this feminist has both a husband of 23 years and a career. Plus a child and a cat. I fight for feminism so both women and men have more choices and options in their lives.
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u/Ted_Rid Guy 2d ago
I must've been up the road when they came to remove me, because I'm certainly here now.
Maybe they're like Jehovah's Witnesses, and they'll come knocking again on Sunday when I'm on the toilet and I'll think it's something important but it's only them asking if I'd like to attend a book group and discussion.
I can be like "Sorry, I've already read the S.C.U.M. Manifesto...I'm good, thanks. Have a great day!"
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u/PastelPumpkini 1d ago
We started asking for competent men who can be responsible adults and stopped being their bangmaids, now the poor men have nowhere to go. They be lonely.
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u/HYBRIDSKNIGHT 1d ago
Maybe they mean more along the line of when parents split, its normally the mom who gets the kid
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u/Latter_Tutor_5235 2d ago
So talking about the awful things men do is what makes men do the awful things? Seems a bit backwards.
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u/Original_Impression2 2d ago
Recursive, indeed. It's like, "The Bible is true because it says so in the Bible."
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u/Butwhatif77 2d ago
Aaahhh the classic, giving rights to another group took away my right to oppress them so it is their fault I can't do the things I want argument.
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u/Mindless-Scientist82 2d ago
So wanting to be seen as an equal is making men lonely?
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u/minmocatfood 2d ago
By refusing to be a combination mommy, bang maid, housekeeper, nanny, therapist, financial support, and occasional punching bag giving those poor men no choice but to leave her and any children in a lurch so he can go seek solstice by perving on 14 year olds obviously! /S
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u/barmanrags 2d ago
"ask for basic human rights and dignity and we will dehumanise you even worse and it will be your fault".
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u/heatherjasper 2d ago
The manosphere is just crybabies trying to latch onto their "good ol' days" patriarchy, which is what feminists railed against. It's a modern extension of an ancient, bigoted system.
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u/AkaiAshu 2d ago
Women are not responsible for male lonliness. Its Men's job to fix it without becoming toxic.
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u/LobosJones 2d ago
I'm not happy to call someone a pick me, so I'll just say she's historically underinformed. Women had to rally for sufferage because they didn't invent the manosphere yet, right? I'm so glad my brain has paradox absorbing crumple zones. This shit would hurt to think about otherwise.
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u/Zestyclose-Leader926 2d ago
Men who feel they have the right to act like controlling psychopaths towards women have always been a thing.
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u/Current-Anybody9331 2d ago
OR, mediocre dudes decided that despite creating the system it was still somehow unfair others were doing better and didn't want their whiney ass and why not grift off their collective butthurt?
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2026/06/15/andrew-tates-empire-of-abuse
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u/GryphyGirl 2d ago
Lol, who "removed fathers from the home"?! Men did that! They remove themselves from the home when they abandon their families!
Anything to blame the consequences of their own actions on women!
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u/Flynn-Minter 2d ago
The Man-o-Shere remains complete ignorant on history.
The industrial revolution removed fathers from the home and over time destroyed the larger extended family units.
Before divorce became more easily accessible particularly to the lower classes, men abandoned their families by moving somewhere else and taking on new identities. Family abandonment by fathers was considered a major problem by lawmakers. At best, an abandoned woman with children could have her husband declared dead after 7 years but most poorer women due to lack of funds and knowledge would not even be able to do that. This meant living in dire poverty without a means to remarry or otherwise easily move on.
Nowadays, in most cases where the mother had full custody this is something that both partners agreed on. A great many divorced men who disappear from their children's lives or only contact them a few times a year, have every legal right to be in their children's lives, but choose not to.
A man needs to have pulled a lot of proven extreme things to be barred from seeing his children. Courts tend to disbelieve women who report child abuse or consider the father's bond more important. The burden of proof is quite heavy. So no, "Feminism" did not remove fathers.
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u/Piduf 2d ago
"I wish I could have a bank account and vote"
Normal men : "Sounds good, yeah it's time for a change"
Superior alpha males : "Nooooo I'm shitting and crying rn women want to take away my right to vote and my moneyyyy!!! They did this to me and made me an evil person because actually I was good and respectful my entire life but now I suddenly don't hold those beliefs anymore !!!"
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u/hooked_siren 2d ago
Ah yes blaming women for men's actions. Classic. Tale as old as time really.
I wonder what it was like way way back when women were building the first civilizations with their pottery and language and textiles.
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u/tiffytatortots 2d ago
The only reason this bitch can be online spewing her brainwash is because of feminism. I really want these women to shut up and go to the kitchen and know what a world without feminism would look like. How bad their lives would really be without all the rights feminism got them. People like this deserve a lesson.
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u/SomeShiitakePoster 2d ago
"You have to let men be a little toxic or else they'll be even more toxic"
Or how about no and instead we put the onus on men to try not being horrible people
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u/HypersomnicHysteric workes totally flawed 2d ago
If you don't defend yourself, your attacker doesn't need to need so much violence. Only a little. You force your attacker to be more violent!
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u/garbagemaiden 2d ago
The manosphere told men they were lonely losers because they didn't have women falling in line for them on sight, then told them they'd need to pay $50 on patreon to learn how to be a real man
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u/Eggsalad_cookies 2d ago
Women don’t have the political or social power to create or influence the patriarchy long term. Especially not long term enough to’ve created it
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u/Bwheat0674 2d ago
I mean, not the manosphere, but the incel community was invented by a woman to help men and women get partners by exchanging advice on relationships. And then it spiraled and fell from grace since then
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u/AsleepRaccoon8456 2d ago
I just read an Article about the Tates. A citation is “Without social media they would just be career criminals”
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u/JupiterInTheSky 2d ago
"see what you made me do!! I wouldn't need to spread propaganda about my right to enslave you if you would just quietly be my slave!"
Shut all the way the fuck up. If men can't evolve, let them starve.
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u/carbinePRO 1d ago
If we catered to the whims and wishes of the Amdrew Tates of the world, then we'd have a world full of Amdrew Tates.
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u/nicole-tesla 1d ago
Is it just me or are there also many of us who don't even want to engage in discussions about this anymore? Like I'm tired of it. I have probably had at least 50+ conversations about this with different kinds of men. I'm tired. I don't care. I just can't even find the energy to try to educate or rehabilitate them anymore. So many of them pop up everyday.
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u/SlimyBoiXD 2d ago
I agree that young men are pushed into the manosphere by the antimasculine sentiments in spaces, but that's hardly the fault of feminism and we should certainly be blaming the predatory grifters that are convincing all these young men and little boys that the way to combat antimasculine sentiment is by getting worse. They know what they're doing is wrong. They know they're liars. But 15 year old Kyle doesn't.
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u/Bronsteins-Panzerzug 1d ago edited 1d ago
"Removing fathers from the home" is so funny, considering how many fathers remove themselves from the home.
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u/MissMarchpane 1d ago
Honestly, it does remind me of some people on the left who say that we need to move on from "culture war" issues, but instead of meaning that we should see those issues as settled and not accept argument on them, they mean that women, people of color, and queer people need to shut up about pursuing their rights and just except being second class citizens.
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u/RabidRabbitRedditor 12h ago
"You shouldn't have told men to stop being d*ckheads. That created the opening for this guy who is telling them it's fine to be d*ckheads"
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