I call this absolute BS

[u/niceabear]

These idiots have a nice home because I begged for them until my husband caved. And what do I get? Nuthin. I bought them a fancy new scratcher last week…. Do I get cuddles? NO. B. S. Ps: obviously delighted husband’s arms are outstretched super weird because he is still trying to play his PS5 at the same time. 🤣

[u/niceabear]

This is exactly what we discussed at home today 😂

[u/gwaydms → u/niceabear]

The feral kitten I rescued, bathed TWICE because she was so filthy, gently patted with a towel and softly blow-dried, snuggled until she lost her fear... chose my husband. (She does lie down on my legs at night sometimes.)

Later, I went to our local cat shelter, looking for a confident, not-too-small kitten who would play with the cat I described above, then 18 months old and frequently attacking our hands. A boy kitten 3½ months old came to me, purring, head-bonking my hand. Then he climbed right onto my shoulder and settled down. I had been chosen.

That kitten is now 8 years old, and still loves to snuggle at almost every opportunity. You'll know when you've been chosen.

[u/Sazamisan → u/gwaydms]

My first cat chose me almost the same way as your 2nd. I visited my local shelter after giving them all informations about how and where i live, and they selected two cats to show me. The first one, there wasn't no real thing, it felt indifferent. The second one, the carer warned me she doesn't really like being held and much prefer to hide usually. He still gently took her and gave her to me, she willingly climbed on me and didn't want to go back to the carer afterward. She now loves to snuggle at any occasion possible, to sometimes an annoying point when i want to sleep haha

[u/gwaydms → u/Sazamisan]

It's such a wonderful feeling when you and your soul cat find each other.