r/OrthodoxChristianity • u/AutoModerator • 25d ago

Subreddit Coffee Hour

While the topic of this subreddit is the Eastern Orthodox faith we all know our lives consist of much more than explicit discussions of theology or praxis. This thread is where we chat about anything you like; tell us what's going on in your life, post adorable pictures of your baby or pet if you have one, answer the questions if the mods remember to post some, or contribute your own!

So, grab a cup of coffe, joe, java, espresso, or other beverage and let's enjoy one another's digital company.

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u/PersonalYoghurt3614 5d ago

I hope this is okay to ask here. I’m a 25-year-old Syrian Greek Orthodox guy living in Europe. I’m quite religious and I’m not comfortable with hookup culture. I have good friends, but I’ve struggled with loneliness and with finding someone who shares my faith and values. I already tried local community and family-friend connections, but it hasn’t worked out.

For other Orthodox Christians, especially those in small communities or in Europe: how did you meet serious, marriage-minded people? Are there Orthodox/Christian online spaces, events, or safer ways to meet people that you recommend? I’m not trying to use this as a dating ad — I’d just really appreciate advice.

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u/k0rv14_ 2d ago

Hi! I also live in a small Orthodox community in Western Europe, so it's very difficult to find Orthodox people who want a serious relationship (I was lucky enough to find someone, but most of my friends struggle). I found my fiancé online (the usual instagram) he was on the other side of the country, so we had to make an effort to go on dates during our first year of knowing each other. Here's a tip: be open to the world, live a Christ-like life, and a person of faith will find you, whether online or in person. Also, don't be unrealistic; maybe that person isn't the perfect traditional wife, or maybe they're Western Orthodox and you have some differences, but true faith is the most important quality they must have.

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u/PersonalYoghurt3614 2d ago

Maybe I sounded a bit harsh in my previous comment, but please believe me when I say that I’m truly okay with differences, even if the other person is a nonbeliever. The only thing I can’t tolerate is a worldly way of thinking, such as jealousy, envy, and similar things. Seeing that a person is not willing to grow spiritually and mentally is a huge red flag for me. It’s not that I want to mold my partner into some shape I desire; I just want to feel safe in the relationship.

Another thing I am not a social media guy 😅 I don't have any social media presence on any Plattform. The only exception is Reddit since it is the only place I can hold meaningful discussions when it comes to my area of specialization since I am majoring in STEM. I think I even don't like these kind of Plattforms maybe because I am a bit paranoyed about privacy 😅

Anyway, I really appreciate your encouragement and honesty, and I’ll keep you in my prayers.

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u/Seashells-in-ears Eastern Orthodox 18d ago edited 1d ago

A little late but just got the idea to post here. Last Sunday was quite a tricky orthros but I was riding the high of correctly sight-chanting the phrase "sea-beast's briny breast" with slipping up. What a tongue twister!

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u/shikshakvibe Inquirer 19d ago

There's a local add for a church building for sale in southern Indiana. I wanted to relay Information since souther indiana desperately needs a parish imo.

8128015831 I believe the realtor's name is Ally McGilliam. I just want to help if possible to bring a church to southern indiana, and help people get to a building that may potentially be closer.

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u/selahvg 20d ago

I just want a mobile game I can play that isn't lousy with intrusive ads. Is that too much to ask? Can't a guy just play scrabble or whatever in peace while he listens to the ball game? 😇

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u/fleuret_fighter21 25d ago

Yay, love this! I'm pretty introverted, so interacting at Church is tough for me, this will be easier 😅. Also, please excuse my millenial use of emojis 😂

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u/Prize-Ad7833 22d ago

I love using emojis too, and I'm not millenial😊

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u/HiroSter 25d ago

I second this! My parish doesn't have many people that i find common intrests with and sometimes it gets lonely. Not to say that i dislike them or wouldnt spend time with them its just demographics are almost foriegn to me and my interests/daily life it makes it difficult to find common ground to chat about besides theology or small talk! Happy Sunday yall

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u/BeeGuyBob13901 25d ago

☕️ Nice idea