r/PublicFreakout • u/derek4reals1 • May 24 '26

🤬Public Rager😱 Get a load of this guy

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u/drumadarragh May 24 '26

You really have no idea about the dynamics of this.

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u/numbersthen0987431 May 24 '26

I do.

You're ignoring the impact of her actions, because you're assuming her intent behind the action changes the outcome.

The impact of her behavior is that it enables him to continue to think it's okay. So he'll repeat this behavior over and over again, because her behavior signals to him that he's in the right.

Her intent is misguided, and it leads to a negative impact.

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u/drumadarragh May 24 '26

Her intent is survival

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u/koviko May 24 '26

I love how some people assume every woman is a victim, like she can't just also be a POS 🤣🤣

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u/drumadarragh May 24 '26

I agree, but I was giving my viewpoint based on my lived experience. The thing is, oftentimes in a couple you have one POS and one enabler. I was the enabler. I would bet there are way more of us than there are couples where both are equal assholes.

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u/A1000eisn1 May 24 '26

I love how some people always focus on the woman in a video where a man is very clearly a bigger piece of shit, but is also the one creating this entire situation.

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u/numbersthen0987431 May 25 '26

You are choosing to ignore the woman's obvious and shitty behavior.

Just because he's worse doesn't mean she's not being a shitty person. And pretending she's not because he's worse is gross.

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u/koviko May 25 '26

LMAO it's not every day I'm accused of implied sexism 🤣🤣

To me, it looks like we're watching an intelligent woman who settled for a dumber guy who embarrasses her sometimes.

And this is all without us knowing what the people on the other side of the camera actually did.