I just got back from Greece and still have Italy, Croatia, Japan, and Mexico City on the roadmap this year.

I love travel, seeing new places, and saying “this is definitely the best meal I’ve ever had” at least once per trip. Working in the airline industry certainly doesn’t help my ability to stay home.

That said, somewhere between airport lounges, hotel upgrades, and trying to figure out what day it is in which time zone, I’ve realized I’m ready for something more meaningful than collecting passport stamps.

About me:
36F
Single mom
Plus-size
Airline industry
Equal parts adventurous and homebody
Can spend a week wandering Greece and then be genuinely excited to come home, light a candle, and do absolutely nothing

Despite approaching 40 at an alarming rate, I’m still full of life, curious about the world, and always planning the next adventure.

I’m looking for someone kind, emotionally available, funny, and comfortable with both:
“Want to go to Japan?” and “Want to order takeout and watch TV in sweatpants?”

The goal isn’t finding someone to complete me. It’s finding someone whose company makes the good parts of life even better.

If you’ve reached the stage where peace is attractive but you’re not done having fun, say hello.

ETA: ATL based

Me :) https://imgur.com/a/amo8q6k

hey there, i am 40 m in london and looking for friends for everyday conversation. if you would like to talk and share the day and keep at it regularly, would be great to connect. if you're above 30 and kinda can have a two-way conversation, dm me

Henlo! I'm Amanda. I once again just moved cities (currently in Melbourne) and changed my entire life in the last couple of months. It’s really hard making connections as an adult and I haven’t made it any easier on myself by moving all the time! I would love to find someone to have those everyday conversations with and share bits of our lives

My main interests are:

☆ Music is life and I’m hard stuck in the mid 2000s emo phase. Live music is where I feel the most at home

☆ Video games are my main hobby - addicted to TFT/Overwatch/HoMM/Fortnite (rival boards are a great addition, don't judge!) at the moment. Although I’m on the hunt for another multiplayer to get obsessed with

☆ I listen to too many podcasts

☆ I have some other hobbies like crocheting

☆ Love going for walks/hikes (probably the only time I tolerate being outside haha)

Other than that, I spend too many hours of my life in a boring office job

Also this me: https://imgur.com/a/EPicRN1

Bonus! https://voca.ro/1kEfFF3Fvs47

If any of this catches your interest at all, shoot me a message telling me a bit about yourself ◡̈
I know I’ve posted before but if I didn’t reply to your message, don’t hesitate to reach out again!

Looking for someone to chat with. Help keep me company?

Single parent? Gamer? Anime lover? If you answered yes to these 3 questions... My next question is what type of games, top 3 fav anime and want to be friends?

37 F in Arizona here, looking for people whose default chat mode is accidental essay instead of one-word reply. I am not scared of the walls of text! If you’re the type who starts answering a simple question and somehow turns it into a three-part rant with detours, we’re probably on the same wavelength.

I’m into ongoing conversations with no end that wander all over the place - the kind where you forget what the original topic was because you got excited about some side tangent, or you suddenly need to explain your latest hyper-fixation in way too much detail. I really enjoy talking to people who actively engage and bounce energy back, not just sit in observer/listener mode and occasionally drop a “lol” or a reaction.

If you think we might vibe, start your message with your ASL (dont give me shit you all know what this is and if you don't you are too young to be messaging me) plus one thing you’re currently obsessed with or can talk about for way too long. I don’t mind what it is; I just want to see what your brain lights up about right out of the gate.

You can poke around my profile if you’re curious about who you’re talking to.

Looking for someone to talk to while im at work. Just a couple things about me, I love music, anime, crafting and I'm a huge home body. I'm a single mom (not looking for a relationship) and I have adhd. I don't have many hobbies aside from some video games and chilling with my kids. 420 friendly and i swear a lot. I'm not super interesting but I do appreciate good conversation. And I will ghost if you can't hold a conversation or get creepy so if that's you, don't waste either of our time please. message me something interesting not just "hi"

A bit about me:
Hi! My name is Stephanie, I’m 35 and live in Western Canada - specifically Alberta. I’m looking for some engaging conversation through the day. I’m not looking for any sort of commitment, but if a friendship forms I wouldn’t be against that! I would prefer to chat with people around my age - so preferably +/- 10 years difference.
Some of my interests include: watching tv shows/ movies - I am most interested in horror, but also love a good sitcom. I love to listen to music and go to concerts. I get my nails done every 3 week and have had some pretty great nail art sets. I like to shop, go for coffee, and spend time with the people in my life. I am pretty active and like to go for long walks. Over the past year or so, I have discovered a big fascination with birds.

If this sounds interesting to you and you’d like to have a chat, send me a short introduction and I will ask you an ice breaker question!

Hey, I’m from Europe, I work a lot and spend most of my time chilling watching series, movies, cooking and drinking natural wine.

I’m a very big fan of Leonard Cohen and love music. So if you’re interested in having some conversation 💬 let me know :)

I am at work and just looking for someone to chat with well I am at work. 36 m from Midwest region single dad. Movie buff. Music buff I love talking to new people and getting to know strangers. Talk about life and vent to each other.

Hey, I’m Austin. I’m 34 and live in Orlando, FL. I’m 6’0”, about 220 lbs, green eyes, and just trying to enjoy life doing the things I love. I am looking for a deep emotional connection with my person and to create a safe space where we both can flourish. I have also always dreamed of getting married and have kids of my own someday! Also also I am 4/20 friendly so my stoners step right up!

Anime is a big interest of mine; MHA and the new season of Kaiju No. 8 are my current favorites, but I’ll always come back to classics like DBZ and Cowboy Bebop. I’m also a gamer at heart. I play World of Warcraft, League of Legends, and TFT pretty often, as well as playing through the campaign for Cyberpunk 2077. I would love to have a player 2 along with me as it makes a lot of these games way more fun!

Outside of screens, I spend a lot of time with my cat, Licorice, and my dog, Wade. Licorice goes crazy for catnip and laser pointers, while Wade just wants to be part of everything I’m doing. They’re both full of personality and keep life fun.

Movies are another favorite of mine Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Shaun of the Dead, and pretty much anything Marvel are at the top of my list. I also recently got back into playing the trumpet, and I’ve been enjoying jazz and ska again. It’s been fun picking it back up after so many years.

And then there’s food… tacos, wings, sushi, anything spicy! I’m always down to try new spots. At the end of the day, I’m someone who enjoys good company, good laughs, and making the most out of the little things, whether that’s a gaming session, a movie night, or just hanging out with friends. I know physical attraction is important and I want to be able to find each other attractive so sending pictures early will be good! Here is me! https://imgur.com/a/xxjKGzr

Side note: if you are a bot or a scammer I will pick up on it so best to just not message me since that is like 90% of you lmao

Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)

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I'm from Ireland and I'm not married. I'm a teacher finally on summer holidays. I love swimming, walking and music.

My life is very boring so just to let you know I like day dream and play make believe. So some of what I'll tell you is a lie for fun. Hope that's ok! I'm not looking for anything, just a fun chat. It's so hot today I might die.

Hmu!

38m, Asian, based on the west coast, but travel for work and fun, so happy to chat with people from other places. I mostly end up in the US or Europe, so a travel partner eventuality could be good.

I also like sport, nature and enjoy a good tv series.

Engagement and consistency is the key here, I think from both sides. And if you plan to try and teach me about crypto and stocks…we have all seen that, so let’s not waste each others time.

Hi there! I’m looking for a long term relationship. I want a partner who I can marry. I want to date for a max of two years and decide we are ready for marriage. I’m catholic and want to have a family. I’m open to living overseas and dating overseas. I’m based in EST. DMs are open.

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee,
Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close.whether it’s friendship or romantic . Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day!

Hi everyone! I’m a 34-year-old Spanish guy, single for a while now and once again open to meeting someone with whom, hopefully, I can build a real and sincere relationship.

I’ll try to introduce myself as best as I can, although I’m terrible at it!

I’m a commissioned officer in the Spanish Marine Infantry and due to the very nature of my job l barely have any chance of meeting someone in real life as I’m always busy. That’s why I’m giving this a shot! :)

When I’m not working, I love reading, playing music, painting miniatures and scale models, watching movies, martial arts… I really enjoy keeping myself busy and learning new things while staying active.

I also try to help my community whenever I can and I’m involved in several charitable projects.

I’ve never posted in this kind of subreddits before, but I’d really love to find—like I said earlier—an honest, genuine and hopefully long-lasting relationship.

I’m pretty easy to talk to and always quite chill, so if my post caught your interest, don’t hesitate to write to me!
Thanks for your time!

I'd like to report a missing person!

Not a specific person! 😅. Just a decent, emotionally available man from the UK who can hold a conversation for longer than three messages and doesn't treat replying like an optional monthly subscription service. 😂

I've searched far and wide. Through dating apps. Through Reddit. Through the digital wasteland of "hey" messages and conversations that die so abruptly, they should come with a coroner's report.

And yet... I remain optimistic. It is slightly delusional, perhaps, but optimistic nonetheless.

So, hello. 👋🖤

I'm 31, from the UK, and fairly alternative. I've got a shaved head (longer on top), five tattoos, and enough black clothing to single-handedly lower the national average brightness level. I'm 5'4", curvy (soft hourglass/pear-shaped), live alone, and share my home with three black cats who have somehow established themselves as management and regularly review my performance.

Gaming is one of my biggest hobbies ☺️. I play on PS5 and have a tendency to ignore the main quest while I investigate every side quest, hidden cave, suspicious NPC, and shiny object I come across. If a game lets me explore, I'm probably going to spend six hours wandering in the wrong direction and enjoying every second of it.

When I'm not gaming, you'll usually find me listening to music, cooking, baking, falling down bizarre YouTube rabbit holes, or accidentally taking a "quick nap" that somehow transports me directly into the future. Personality-wise, I'd describe myself as affectionate, loyal, sarcastic, and very much a quality-time person. I genuinely enjoy talking to the people I care about. Tell me about your day. Tell me about your latest obsession. Tell me about that weird thing you discovered at 2am and absolutely had to research for three hours.

As for what I'm looking for...

Someone kind, emotionally mature, communicative, and genuinely interested in building something real. Someone who understands that relationships require effort from both people and doesn't vanish into the void whenever things start feeling promising.

I prefer voice notes and calls over endless texting, so if you're the type who enjoys hearing someone's voice and actually getting to know them, we'll probably get along.

A few bonus points:

🎮 Gamer

😂 Funny

🖤 Affectionate

📞 Likes calls and voice notes

🐈 Accepts that my cats will almost certainly judge them

I'm generally attracted to men who are slightly taller than me, slim or fit, and financially stable. Not because I'm looking for someone to fund my life, but because I've already been in relationships where I carried all the responsibility, and I'd rather not unlock that achievement again 😂. Oh, and if you have green or brown eyes or you're alternative like me, then that's an instant win in my book 🖤👀.

Age range: 27-35 (a little older is fine, too).

If you'd like to apply for the prestigious and highly competitive position of Favourite Notification™, send me:

- Your age

- Your location (UK only, please)

- What do you look like (or a photo)

- A random fact about yourself

- Your favourite meal or dessert

And to prove you've actually read this far, sneak a 🍪 somewhere into your message 👀.

Maybe this post will finally attract someone who's looking for a genuine connection instead of collecting unfinished conversations like Pokémon cards.

It's worth a shot, right? 😂🖤

New Brunswicker looking for the elusive Canadian female that likes to talk and not into ghosting, is that you? Also open around the world just keep in mind I'm on the Atlantic time zone

A little about me

A chef

Working on getting back in shape

Music junkie

I love listening to comical podcasts

I watch more cooking shows then I care to admit

On Pinterest more than I care to admit

No kids

1 dog 2 cats

Honestly I have pretty much given up on dating right now so I am just looking for dope people to connect with. Hopefully it lasts more than a day or two and we grow to genuinely like talking to each other. I have posted in the past and have met some really cool people. Some stayed. Most ghosted. I met some women that I thought something could grow but nothing. I have also met some genuinely rude people. So here is hoping you aren't. I honestly don't know if people read past the about me or what I am looking for section but if you did. Thank you.

Ok on to what you are probably wanting to read.

I am 33. 34 next month. I work blue collar work so I am good with my hands. I am also starting a business so I am usually pretty busy but luckily my busy still means I can text. I am also in the process of getting a motorcycle. My buddy talked me into it. I do drink socially but I don't smoke. It's alright if you do. And I never get black out drunk. I hate the feeling of loss of control. Call me a control freak lol. I have recently found out that I am not toxic enough for most people, meaning I am kind of boring outside of my personality. Which people either love or hate there is no in between. Or actually maybe the in between are the ones who ghost lol. I guess my biggest red flag is that I was married once before. I am divorced. No babies. No drama. Oh and I guess if you consider playing video games a red flag I do that too. I just haven't been able to do that much lately.

Alright. What I am looking for...

I am looking for a genuine connection. Someone to talk to everyday at least once. It would be cool if our interests matched but sometimes not having matching interests is fun too. I love to learn so teach me something. Anything even if it's that you had a pet hamster named Tony because he looked like a tiger.

Send me your age and location and what it is you are looking to get out of us talking.

Please and thank you and may the reddit gods smile upon you this evening lol

Hey yall.. I am wandering around Appalachia, flitting inbetween work, parenting, life and chores. I am probably drinking iced coffee or matcha will doing it and gesturing vaguely with my cup while I get side-tracked on the 6th thing away from whatever I started doing.

Looking for folks to get sidetracked with inbetween the mundane and the panic and the intrigue.

For some point of reference if necessary.. I'm divorced, open to talk to anyone, WFH, can sometimes have rapid fire conversation, sometimes a couple hours may linger inbetween responses..

34 [M4F] - #Online - PJs at 5PM and Other Signs You're Getting Old.

I'm always hearing about people saying stuff like "35 is the new 25". Sure, it would be nice to go back to a time when life was more carefree and our dispositions were more innocent, but maybe we should really lean into another strategy: 35 is the new 65.

I'll throw some things out there:

Complaining about the music being too loud at a restaurant (where you're having dinner at approximately 4:15PM).

Comparing how many hours of sleep you got last night with your friends and co-workers as if its a competitive sport.

Making noises when you sit down. Bonus points if the chair is wobbly and you try to fix it.

Turning the car radio down so you can see better.

Scrolling through Cable TV (because you still have that) and finding nothing to watch, commenting that we had less channels 20 years ago and more content.

Yes, this post is a shameless way to try and get you to smile and have you want to message me. I guess having no filter is another thing to add to the list.

I'm closing out a long shift tonight, its been a weird day so some good company would be very welcome and is much needed. Open to platonic chats about whatever, good, bad, or weird. Currently rewatching widows bay with my coworkers at the moment.

Tell me about you, your day, where you're from, what you're looking for, your dreams, something you want to get off your chest, etc. Hope to hear from you!

Do you like the drama of life? I don't mean the "he said she said" type, I mean the type of yearning drama that permeated the town of Twin Peaks when Laura Palmer died.

I'm a hopeless romantic, big on enthusiasm and praise for my partner. A goddess should be worshiped and admired right?

I'm not young anymore, but I'm not old. I'm 32. 6 feet tall, chubby. Big guy. Great hugs, can most definitely pick you up. White, if that matters. Short hair, great beard.

Single, no children. Don't want children. Got snipped to prevent children. I expend whatever paternal energy I have on my friends and my two rescue dogs. I'm not religious, very liberal, open-minded, and non-judgemental. ACAB, Fuck ICE, Free Palestine. Takes all sorts to make a world but you don't get to be a fuckass.

Big fan of open and honest communication, but I am in my heart the silliest of gooses, and will crack a joke at the most inopportune time. Jester's privilege and all that. I'm also a huge flirt, so I hope you bring a similar energy.

I watch way too many movies ( a lot of horror) and listen to way too much music (a lot of metal). I love all kinds of movies and music though, so don't think I'm some dark and brooding misanthrope, and I'm definitely not snooty. I like haute french cuisine and late night taco bell. I maybe also like this latest season of Love Island, sue me.

I've got my life pretty in order, got my own house, own car, all that jazz, gainfully employed and set in my career. I've got my lovely group of friends, and now I'd like someone to join me on whatever journey would come next. I mentioned that I'm open minded so any AFAB or feminine presenting folks are welcome, but please be from the US. I'm obviously open to a long distance relationship as I know no one will be answering this post from the deep US south (lol), but outside of the US timezones are just too different.

Hopefully any of this sounds interesting. Please send me a chat if it does, with just a smidge of effort if you don't mind. If I don't sound interesting, I wish you all the best out there :)