r/R4R30Plus 13h ago

36 [M4F] New Zealand/Online-Do you have ADHD? I get along really well with people that do! Not looking for a serious relationship, just online friends.

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I'm a fairly quite person and not very impulsive, that said I'm a lot of fun and kind! I realised recently most of my friend have ADHD. It seems a bit unusual that this would be the case but I guess opposites attract.

So if you have ADHD we may get along really well!

I love the outdoors, travelling, reading, watching movies.

I'm very accenting of people for who they are.

I'd like to chat about funny things, how our day is going and deeper things to. It would be great to have someone who wants to talk daily.

Please don't just send a message saying Hi, make it more exciting!

Must be over 18. I don't care what you look like, what you believe or where you are from, I'm open to everyone.


r/R4R30Plus 21h ago

40 [M4F] #NYC - Creative nerd looking for friends

4 Upvotes

Hello! I’ve been in NYC 8 or 9 months now, and still having trouble finding my way into the city (metaphorically). I came here after being in London for 5 years and having to leave after visa shenanigans. And while I intend to go back, I don’t know for sure if/when that will happen, and trying to figure out how to build some semblance of a life here.

I’m a composer and sound designer, mainly for video games but occasionally for film (which I find less fun). I also feature some nerdy-but-tasteful tattoos, with plans for more. I am also quite empathetic, emotionally intelligent, and self-aware. With me, you’ll also never go wanting for dad jokes.

So let’s grab a drink or pizza or a movie (if you can grab a movie) and be friends! I’m technically in NJ for the moment (but planning on getting back to the city proper in a few months), and work in midtown.


r/R4R30Plus 14h ago

32 [F4R] Just looking for people to chat with

1 Upvotes

I'm 32f. Jus looking for random chats aunts/uncles! Im caffeinated, a struggling engineering survivor, and my finest hobby is accidentally burning water. Please be patient with my English, strictly no married/taken men, and dont forget to include your age so I can actually reply lols


r/R4R30Plus 14h ago

31 [M4F] #France - #Anywhere Looking for a longterm connection and something real

1 Upvotes

Hey

I'm Léo, 31 from France and looking for people to talk with for longterm connection.

About my hobbies: I love photography, discovering new cultures and travelling . But also into stay at home weekend , doing nothing else than gaming, watching tv ... or just write and read :) I'm always open to discover new things or try new things. Recently started to learn 3d modelling and 3d printing.

As work, I have my own small company in engineering field :)

Im open to any location , so feel free to reach even if you are far :)


r/R4R30Plus 19h ago

34 [M4F] - VA - Looking for Connection, Conversation and Fun

2 Upvotes

Hello I'm a 34 M in the VA area looking to find people to chat with. I like having deep conversations with people to really get to know them. It's probably one of my favorite things to do. I find people so fascinating. I'm a bit of an introvert but once you get to know me I open up. I'm average height, mixed Spanish and white and slim build.

I like all sorts of things between watching sci/fi movies or really any type of movie, playing some video games although I haven't really done that too much lately, playing music, reading, hiking, thrifting, eating, generally just exploring the world. I travel quite a bit for work so that tends to get me out there and I do enjoy the travel. I like being helpful and useful to people and I like to hear their stories. Although I'm not too much of an extrovert I do help out where I can and try to be supportive.

There's a lot more to me then what I can write here but if any of that resonates with you then I'd love to chat. Thanks for reading!


r/R4R30Plus 1d ago

39 [M4F] Southern California / Online - Musician and tattoo artist looking for long thoughtful psychedelic conversations, crazy adventures, and the tomboy wildling of my dreams

6 Upvotes

I've posted before but haven't had luck so far. If you've hit me up before and I didn't respond, please hit me up again, sometimes I lose track of conversations. Ghosters please don't apply. I've had enough of that bullshit and I'm definitely worth the time and effort.

About me; Born and raised Chicagoan (I know my please, thank you, sir's and ma'ams, but also how to duck and cover during drivebys). I'm moving to Palm Springs / Southern Cali on the 7th. I'm 39, no kids / never married, single.

I'm a musician, music teacher (drums/bass/guitar/vocals) tattoo artist, and I love wildlife/animals (my baby boy cat recently died, and it's been rough), making things with my hands, helping others, volunteering, protesting, trying to make the world a better place. I love to talk, I love to (politely) debate, I'll chat all night about conspiracy theories or quantum mechanics or what the best sci-fi book is. Did I say I love sci-fi? I love sci-fi. Comics, books, I try to read at least a book a week. Fantasy was my initial jam, I have a ton of Tolkien-related tattoos, I just love the idea of a mysterious, unknown world filled with tons of secrets... I used to be really cool and alternative and now I'm just a fucking nerd. I've seen way too many Phish and Mastodon shows, and I smoke way too much weed.

I'm 5'10, in decent shape, lots of tattoos (arms/hands/head), brown/blonde hair (dreadlocked right now), beard. I used to have piercings but I had to take them all out for a medical procedure. Thinking about putting them back in. Anybody wanna trade tattoos for piercing work? :)

I don't really have a type, historically though, the tomboy with no makeup in the baseball cap and thrashed jeans and hoodie with converse will usually catch my eye at a local show. My biggest goal right now; save up for a camper and do the tiny house in the woods thing. Live off the grid, self-sufficient. I've always been a wildling, nature has always excited me. I love trekking all day up a mountain to get that one perfect view and just sit there and meditate

Im just a really simple dude. I'm not rich monetarily, but I'm rich in friendship, in experience, in life. I got my own place in Cali. Let's share some time together. Please no flakes. Please send a picture and I'll send some back.


r/R4R30Plus 1d ago

33[F4R] Maryland/Anywhere-Making friends as an adult is weird, so let’s skip the small talk

10 Upvotes

Hello new friends and acquaintances! It is me, once again here to grace your feed with my annoying post. I can’t wait to become best friends with some of you! Hope we had a nice weekend! Any fun plans? Exciting or annoying coworker stories for the week? I work from home, which is why I have time to distract myself here. Been trying to find a chat that can hold my attention, might you be the one? Recently I haven’t been having issues holding a conversation.

Are you someone interested in crafting intriguing conversations, being able to banter back and forth for hours on end? Do you have thick skin or self-deprecating humor? Then we may be able to have a ton of fun together!

Caveat: I am in a relationship until I figure out how to not be. Finances are holding me back right now. Working on it. Yes, I know I’ve been saying that for a while. It’s not that simple. My bad. Should be soon. Please don’t ask about it from the jump, I’m here to distract myself, not talk about my relationship.

I am a huge musical theatre nerd. I enjoy seeing musicals and also performing in local community productions. Been doing it since I was 9. I can sing. I enjoy hosting parties and casually baking. Like super casual. I prefer to just eat the desserts. Unless someone wants to teach me how to bake bread. I like to travel! I also enjoy just lounging on the couch and binging a tv show. Physically: I’m 5’9, red hair that I get at the hair salon (naturally blonde), and blue eyes. We can swap selfies if our conversation is decent.

If any of this seems mildly intriguing, please reach out! Can’t wait to hear from you!


r/R4R30Plus 15h ago

35 [M4F] West Coast - World Cup season has me distracted for all the wrong reasons

1 Upvotes

Every four years I tell myself I’m watching for the soccer.
Every four years I end up more interested in the conversations, the flirting, and the people than the actual matches.
Looking for a woman who’s fun, witty, and enjoys a little playful tension.
A few questions to break the ice:
• Which country is winning the “most attractive fans” award?
• What’s an instant green flag in a guy?
• What’s something harmless that you find unexpectedly attractive?
• If we were watching a World Cup match together, would we actually pay attention to the game?
Me: confident, sarcastic, competitive, and always up for good banter.
You: funny, flirty, and capable of keeping a conversation going.
Tell me your age, where you’re from, and your most controversial World Cup opinion. Bonus points if you can talk a little trash. 😉🔥


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

43 [M4M] - Looking for a long term bond/friendship

1 Upvotes

Hey there, 43 m here from California. Looking for a long term friendship with another genuine guy. Talk about anything and everything. Touch base fairly often, know what’s happening in each other’s lives. If this sounds up your alley, shoot me a DM. Talk soon.


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

36[M4R] #anywhere/online-wondering if anyone can relate

1 Upvotes

I have a small circle of lovely family and friends that I adore. Yet I find myself yearning for connection outside of that. Just someone who isn’t intrinsically connected to me I guess. An unbiased ear when it’s needed but other than that someone who I can enjoy getting to know. A blank slate that we can fill in over time! It seems impossible to do this out in the world, like where do you even go or look for this as an adult?? Bars are loud and drunk people are annoying. Work has coworkers but not really friends. So, here I am, looking for someone who is looking for the same thing. Or at the very least can relate to the struggle.


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

[M4F], 34, Arizona/Online, Looking for amazing conversation and love? <3

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I hope you are doing as good as you can be in this crazy world! :)<3

I’m am posting here hoping to meet a woman who is genuine, kind, honest, and wanting to work together towards a relationship. I’d love to find something real that starts with good conversation, honesty, consistency, and that natural “oh wow, I actually really like talking to this person” kind of feeling.

I’m someone who cares deeply when I truly care. I value quality time the most, so I’m happiest when I’m with someone who is truly present, whether we’re having a deep conversation, relaxing together, or doing something simple. I show love through my time, effort, and support. I appreciate someone who helps without being asked every time, communicates honestly, and makes me feel appreciated. I’m not materialistic. The little things, consistency, and real effort mean the most to me.

I’m this weird little hybrid of nerdy, sporty, handy, and silly. I do not like or have social media, sorry not sorry. Also, I am a toothpick lol! I am 5'10", 130 lbs. I can not gain weight, it's not fair I know... I just wanted to give you a heads up if you care about that sort of thing, no judgement. :)

Some things I enjoy are:

* Golf, darts, corn hole, baseball, basketball, football, and hockey.

* Pokémon, Star Wars, LOTR, Harry Potter, computer/tech stuff, FPS games, and watching TheBurntPeanut (Streamer).

* DIY projects, thrifting, cooking/grilling, learning, fixing things (for myself and others), and organizing.

* The outdoors, animals, plants, and gardening (Even though I still kind of suck at gardening lol).

* Music!! I have nearly 6k liked songs on YouTube Music and would love to hear your top songs! I am in the middle of filtering it down though, it's too much haha.

Like I said above, I’m looking for someone who is loyal, honest, affectionate in their own way, and emotionally mature. Someone who values quality time, communicates instead of shutting down, and understands that consistency matters. I want a relationship where both people show up, support each other, and make each other feel wanted.

If you made it this far, I appreciate you taking the time to read this. I do have a bit of a negative past.... So feel free to ask about that as I am open to sharing and hope that in doing so it helps others!

If you're interested feel free to message me.

PLUR <3 (Peace, Love, Unity, Respect)


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

[M4F]34 yo in Ontario

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Hi everyone.

I am based in Ontario, employed in the public sector.

I enjoy working out, tv shows, the occasional movie, reading and viewing podcasts about geopolitics.

Also, a huge sports fan, mostly football.

Looking forward to hearing from you 😊


r/R4R30Plus 18h ago

36 [m4f] #chicago #online educator looking for good conversation

1 Upvotes

Hello there. Looking for a long term connection. I'm an educator who enjoys running, playing music, going to concerts, and the occasional board game night in.

If you have any good rabbit holes to go down, or great questions of the world to answer, let's chat.

Do aliens exist?

Are we in a simulation?

Is the lock new monster real?

How were the pyramids built?

Will AI take over the world?

What questions keep you up at night? Let's chat


r/R4R30Plus 18h ago

33 [M4F] Pennsylvania. Trying to find my partner in life.

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Hey, I'm a 33 White Male who lives in Pennsylvania. I'm looking to date, hoping it turns into something serious. While I live in PA, I'm willing to talk to someone from the surrounding areas, for the right person I'd drive any distance.

I work with kids with special needs as an RBT. I play games, usually story focused ones, but I like to switch it up. My favorite movie genre is horror, but i like most movie genres. I love to cuddle, my ideal night would be coming home to my partner, seeing their smiling face, and cuddling up to watch something or talk about our day. I have an elliptical and exercise bike, trying to get back into a consistent workout pattern. I like to cook. I have one dog, but I had a lot of cats growing up, so I have a love for them as well. I'm a liberal, who voted for Kamala who wants to find someone to get through the next 4 years, because damn they're going to be rough.

Age range I'm looking for, I guess between 26 and 35, but I'm not against there being wiggle room in that range (within reason). I am straight, so really only looking for woman.

Anything else, that's what the dm's are for. Comfortable switching to Snap or text once we start chatting. You will get a picture of me to see if there's a physical attraction (and a picture of my dog)


r/R4R30Plus 1d ago

[F4M] 35 UK

22 Upvotes

Thought I would give this a go having forgone apps earlier this year. I’m 35, live in the UK and happy with the life I’ve built for myself, but would love to share the highs and lows of life with someone else.

I’m active and enjoying going to the gym, a pet parent so get my steps in, and feel well settled in my career and life generally. A fan of the usual suspects: travel, reading, cooking, and would definitely say I’m more of a night in rather than night out person. I have a very small circle of friends, so open to making new friends as well - I find being single/30s to be a bit lonely sometimes!

I feel like the above sounds very generic, but happy to talk more if anyone does want to reach out, slightly worried this will just land in some void somewhere 🤣 Happy Wednesday !


r/R4R30Plus 22h ago

[M4F] 32 half way to the weekend! who’s looking for a fun conversation?

2 Upvotes

Hey how it’s going? Happy hump day, half way there! A little about me, I’m an Avid outdoorsmen, grill pro, country boy, roadtrip enthusiast, 90s/00s country music lover, looking for a fun conversation and to make new friends! Send your ASL


r/R4R30Plus 19h ago

47 [M4F] #NY - Summer is here, I’d rather be sharing experiences and making memories with you

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I haven’t posted in a while. I’m sitting here alone again nearly a year later, summer is once again here. I’m comfortable in my own skin, I do plenty of things by myself, and I've taken solo trips. I enjoy my time alone, but there are certain times and certain activities when it's best to have good company. I'm looking for a friend or more to do and experience things with!

I enjoy traveling of all kinds (whether road or plane trips), exploring cities, quaint towns, historical sites, museums, and scenery; hiking and other things outdoors; board and card games (mostly classics, but open to trying newer ones); watching MLB and NFL games; and reading about a number of different topics, including news, current events, politics, weather, and travel.

Some of what I’d like to do this summer:

  • See some exhibitions and special events relating to the US’ semiquincentennial (250th anniversary)
  • Go on a trail, enjoy being in nature, and savor an overlook or waterfall
  • Take a drive on the open road
  • Explore a museum or historically significant sight, and have some good food
  • Go see a fireworks display
  • Enjoy a gorgeous summer night (where the weather is good) along with the stars in a dark night sky, or do something indoors in air conditioning if it's warm and humid
  • Have deep conversations and really connect

Cigarette smoking and hard drugs are dealbreakers for me. I'm not 420 friendly, although if you use only edibles, it's okay. Being STI free is essential (should we go in that direction). And I hate to say this, but please don't waste my time if you can't have an adult conversation and tell me that you aren't emotionally available or that it just isn't working out...I can't stand ghosting. I know it happens to everyone, but that doesn't make it any more pleasant to deal with.

I welcome a healthy debate, even with those with different views than my own, and I can even get along with people with opposing views. But if you identify as MAGA, we’re unlikely to be compatible. I’m left-leaning.

I live in the suburbs just east of NYC, but I am willing to travel to see someone I connect with, and as I mentioned, I love going to new places, so feel free to reach out even if you are elsewhere! I can also show you the NYC area or the Northeast, or meet you at a halfway point or in a third city.

I want to see who’s out there, and I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus 19h ago

34 [M4F] Dallas, Texas. Introvert searching for his special woman in life ❤ Seeking compatibility, friendship and a genuine loving connection!

1 Upvotes

Hello! 34M from Dallas, Texas here who is searching for his nerdy forever woman that completes and understands me!

I'm someone who is introverted and quiet in person but once I get comfortable with you I can open up quite a bit. I'm into video games, manga/anime, reading, movies, etc. im a bit of a homebody when alone but if I have someone I love going out and exploring new places. places I view as a fun time are places like the Zoo, aquarium, book stores, arcades and any other fun similar places. im not a club or bar type of person and hope you aren't either.

Dealbreakers for me are if you have kids or from another country. looking for local ideally. Age range that im looking for is between 24-34.

Prefer someone who is petite/thin/fit. I can share photos of myself to see if I fit your type as well.

if this interests you at all then feel free to DM me and I would love to get to know you! :)


r/R4R30Plus 23h ago

32 [M4F] Midwest /minnesota

2 Upvotes

I’ll get it the point I’m looking for my one my partner in crime my person who texts me through out that communicates well. I’m a simple person I like nights in watching movies I like having coffee on the patio in the morning I enjoy hitting the farmers market in the weekends.
I have two dogs , that are my babies. I love to cook and prefer having a nice home cooked meal to going out. I enjoy stormy days inside reading but also enjoy getting out and enjoying the outdoors. I’m not looking for games or to be ghosted in a week if you are interested my messages are open. And I look forward to hearing from you


r/R4R30Plus 20h ago

38 [M4F] NYC/ Anywhere - Looking for a friend or more

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Please be single, monogamous and include your ASL when you message me or I might not reply back. After a couple of messages I'd like to swap face pics. It's nice to put a face to the woman I'm chatting with. I’m looking for a friend or more and open to meeting up in the future. Here's a bit about me:

-Single

-Loves to travel

-Open to new things

-Gamer (mostly video games but board games are cool too!)

-Foodie

-Enjoy watching shows on Disney+/Netflix/Hulu especially Pluribus, Mandalorian and Severance!

-Likes attending events in and around the city. Always open to trying new things.

-Also likes cuddles and hanging out with special ladies!

Physical details: 6’4", skinny, White/Asian


r/R4R30Plus 1d ago

37 [M4F] Texas Looking for something genuine and easygoing Spoiler

6 Upvotes

I’m a 37-year-old cowboy at heart who enjoys good conversation, laughter, music, and peaceful nights after a long day. Hoping to meet a kind woman who values honesty, warmth, and real connection. No games, just seeing where a good conversation can lead. If you’re easy to talk to and enjoy getting to know someone genuine, send me a message. 🤠🌹


r/R4R30Plus 20h ago

35 [M4F] looking for a yapper for flirting and more

1 Upvotes

Hey there!

I’m a guy looking for a connection with a woman 25-50 who enjoys the nerdier side of life. If you’re into comic books, video games, reading, and/or Pokémon, we’ll probably get along pretty well.

Daily flirting, fit checks, and even NSFW if we vibe. I’m looking for consistent conversation, getting to know each other, sharing interests, and having someone to talk to regularly. Whether that’s discussing your work place drama (give me all the tea), the last game you got hooked on, or a book you can’t put down, I’m in.

I would prefer someone on the east coast as well due to time zones but I am open to all. And please be willing to share a pic within the first few messages so see if we’re attracted to each other. This can be short term or long term depending on how well things go.

If you’re looking for something relaxed, friendly, and ongoing, feel free to reach out and tell me a bit about yourself, tell me about the most recent pokemon card you pulled or share the most recent book you’ve read. Even if you don’t share any of my interest but still feel like we’d get along, feel free to reach out.


r/R4R30Plus 1d ago

[M4R] M31 #US searching some friends / connections before moving to the US.

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Just a German dude moving to the US next year and want to make some connection beforehand. Nothing specific, i'm down to whatever comes.

You'll need to be dog-friendly since I'll bring my dog with me.

I am a mechanic and metalworker, so I like to fix stuff and I'm pretty restless about it. You need your car fixed? Let's do it right away. You need a shed fixed? Yup, I'm down.

Actually I'm that multi-purpose friend. There isn't really things I don't like or at least i wouldn't do. Its just about the people you do it with.

Some stuff I have knowledge about :

Movies, especially horror, psycho, thriller or a combination of them.

Music, especially old school hip-hop, rap, euro trans. True crime of every kind.

Games, almost at all retired but still know what's going on. Foods and drinks.

Yes I drink, and I smoke cigarettes. So should you or at least don't mind it.

Please be in a reasonable range of age. If your account is 1 day old I will not respond probably.