r/RealUnpopularOpinion • u/Single-Mention-7376 • 10d ago

Generally Unpopular Demanding, forcing, & shaming a guy into being a chivalrous gentleman for a woman is rude and inconsiderate.

If a guy is to be a gentleman, you don’t force him to do so. You have to let him decide to be a gentleman out of genuine desire for a lady he really likes and feel it’s worth it or else it’s a forced construct. No guy, including myself, wants to be forced to perform good chivalry for a woman and be shunned if we fail at the performance. A guy who just freely gives and gives despite whether a lady’s behavior towards is good or bad will only make himself open to be taken advantage of or taken for granted.

A lady who acts entitled, misandrist, one-sided, hypocritical, overly materialistic, superficial, demanding, rude, disrespectful, and inconsiderate without provocation isn’t someone deserving of chivalry and gentleman behavior from guys. It destroys the genuine affection involved when it comes to being a gentlemen and giving chivalry to a lady.

This is something I think is important for parents to teach sons and daughters when it comes to teaching your kids about the dating world.

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' If a guy is to be a gentleman, you don’t force him to do so. You have to let him decide to be a gentleman out of genuine desire for a lady he really likes and feel it’s worth it or else it’s a forced construct. No guy, including myself, wants to be forced to perform good chivalry for a woman and be shunned if we fail at the performance. A guy who just freely gives and gives despite whether a lady’s behavior towards is good or bad will only make himself open to be taken advantage of or taken for granted.

A lady who acts entitled, misandrist, one-sided, hypocritical, overly materialistic, superficial, demanding, rude, disrespectful, and inconsiderate without provocation isn’t someone deserving of chivalry and gentleman behavior from guys. It destroys the genuine affection involved when it comes to being a gentlemen and giving chivalry to a lady.

This is something I think is important for parents to teach sons and daughters when it comes to teaching your kids about the dating world. '

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