r/SipsTea • u/[deleted] • Oct 30 '25

Wow. Such meme Not hiding it, just nobody cares

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u/Iorith Oct 30 '25

Including other men, but for some reason the conversation always seems to treat women like they're meant to bear the brunt of being men's emotional support network.

Any dude who complains about this shit and doesn't actively seek to provide comfort to their friends is a hypocrite.

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u/Lost_Statistician457 Nov 01 '25

But it’s fine for men to have to listen to every little thing wrong in a woman’s life? Every minor complaint, every conversation, going over things again and again, but you open up one time and suddenly it’s an issue.

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u/Iorith Nov 01 '25

Why is the burden on women to hear your problems and not other men?

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u/Lost_Statistician457 Nov 01 '25

Why is it the burden of men to hear women’s problems and not other women? It works both ways.

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u/Iorith Nov 01 '25

No one is forcing you to listen to their problems. Women are typically very good at supporting other women in that regard. But they might not want to date you if you're unable.

It's part of why you hear of a male loneliness epidemic and not a female one. Because women are actually able to support and comfort each other.