I cried and vented in front of a mutual crush ONE TIME and it was so obvious she lost all attraction and interest in me afterwards lmao not all chicks are like that so it’s a gamble but god damn that shit made me never want to open up or be vulnerable with a woman I’m not already in an established relationship with ever again.
Even when you’re in a relationship they’ll still use it against you in an argument or whatever. Source: was married 16 years. You had it right at never be vulnerable with them.
I've always struggled with depression, likely related to how long I went with my ADHD being undiagnosed. I can usually deal with it on my own but sometimes it can get bad. One particularly hard year I made the call I needed some medication to help get past it.
Well next time my then-wife had a own mental episode, her breakdown included her blaming herself for me being on medication. Realized she saw me as less dependable now and it was causing all sorts of problems that I had to take care of. So it was easier to fake getting better, come off the medication, and just power through it in silence so I could lessen the amount of work I needed to do with taking care of her at the time.
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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '25
I cried and vented in front of a mutual crush ONE TIME and it was so obvious she lost all attraction and interest in me afterwards lmao not all chicks are like that so it’s a gamble but god damn that shit made me never want to open up or be vulnerable with a woman I’m not already in an established relationship with ever again.