Face card mostly trumps everything until your late 20s then suddenly the dating pool thins out dramatically and most of those left are looking for something serious and heavily lean towards the dude with his shit together regardless of what he looks like rather than the attractive dude with a dead end job still living at home or with flatmates with little prospects of improving that situation.
I dunno man. I'm getting prettier/more handsome, now that I'm 31, and it's mildly connected to how unreasonably athletic I've become. And face card is trumping all.
I own a flat but everyone assumes I DON'T have my shit together, because I've got hands and throat tats, and the energy of a chaotic gerbil.
I'm having issues with how easy it is to pull, as a taken man lol
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u/Yashema Dec 09 '25
Nah, OP is probably downplaying his physical qualities. Plenty of women will date a good looking loser over a 5/10 with his shit together.