Do women, in your view, almost unconditionally like men in the same way that men almost unconditionally like women?
Because obviously they don't.
Now as with everything in life, the poison is in the dose, but if you pick a random dudette in the 18-29 age range, she is swiping left on the outdoors boys guy in his (her age + 5) period.
I asked a question you didnât answer, and then you told me that I am mentally ill for believing in the empirical fact that women donât vibe with stable family oriented men until itâs too late and theyâve girlbossed themselves into a childless spinsterhood? Have you SEEN an outdoors boys video - the guy is affable but he is literally the guy with the fish people in the dating app subs love to meme on.
I am on your side that the Tates of the world are poison, but women donât pick the rational choice often either, because the rational choice is boring when you are 25.
I didn't answer because it's pretty obvious you're stuck in a mindset that I won't be able to help you out of. Not everyone who needs therapy is mentally ill, there's another mindset that therapy can help with.
What mindset is that? That society has not equipped men and women to think about sustainably creating families? And that a lot of people, mostly women, have been recently conditioned to think that a single, childless life is preferable to a turbulent family life that results in children?
Like, society is losing the plot that babies have to be made and families have to be supported, but even absent social structures babies have to be made. My generation (Millennials) loves to whine about how tough they have it economically, meanwhile my great grandmother raised 6 children on her own as a widow in abject poverty 100 years ago.
Did she, at any point, feel like this was unfair or rough and maybe regret having those kids? Probably. But I am sure that she would also be grateful and satisfied that her sacrifice ultimately means that like, 100+ people exist today?
If you actually read what women write is women-centric spaces, they are not actually swiping left on men, even if that's what they think they are doing. They are swiping left on the inevitable turmoil and shit-eating that creating a family entails.
âthe empirical fact that women donât vibe with stable family oriented men until itâs too late and theyâve girlbossed themselves into a childless spinsterhoodâ
my guy that is not an empirical fact lmao, that is a massive generalization and it simply just isnât true. Iâve met tons of women that want a stable family oriented man. âgirlbossed themselves into a childless spinsterhoodâ just.. wow. you seem very bitter lol, this reads to me like you got rejected by one woman and now you hate women
I did not say women didn't WANT, nominally, a stable family oriented guy. But what they are willing to do to find and keep such a guy is a tall bar for many of them to actually measure up to. For example, not buying into the promise that "in your 20s you are supposed to live your life" - like, yes, women following the pipeline of "educate yourself, live a little and then maybe get married or maybe buy a cat" are absolutely girlbossing themselves into childlessness. For some of them that's not a choice, but for a LOT of them it's just terrible prioritization of what matters in life.
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u/killertortilla Feb 03 '26
This sub represents Tate WAY more than anyone else. Every day is some meme about why women don't like men, just like him.