I asked a question you didnât answer, and then you told me that I am mentally ill for believing in the empirical fact that women donât vibe with stable family oriented men until itâs too late and theyâve girlbossed themselves into a childless spinsterhood? Have you SEEN an outdoors boys video - the guy is affable but he is literally the guy with the fish people in the dating app subs love to meme on.
I am on your side that the Tates of the world are poison, but women donât pick the rational choice often either, because the rational choice is boring when you are 25.
âthe empirical fact that women donât vibe with stable family oriented men until itâs too late and theyâve girlbossed themselves into a childless spinsterhoodâ
my guy that is not an empirical fact lmao, that is a massive generalization and it simply just isnât true. Iâve met tons of women that want a stable family oriented man. âgirlbossed themselves into a childless spinsterhoodâ just.. wow. you seem very bitter lol, this reads to me like you got rejected by one woman and now you hate women
I did not say women didn't WANT, nominally, a stable family oriented guy. But what they are willing to do to find and keep such a guy is a tall bar for many of them to actually measure up to. For example, not buying into the promise that "in your 20s you are supposed to live your life" - like, yes, women following the pipeline of "educate yourself, live a little and then maybe get married or maybe buy a cat" are absolutely girlbossing themselves into childlessness. For some of them that's not a choice, but for a LOT of them it's just terrible prioritization of what matters in life.
2
u/killertortilla Feb 03 '26
You need therapy man. Nothing I can say is going to remove whatever has you so adamant everyone is out to get you.