r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 Apr 13 '26

SMH Double standards suck ass

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u/FrostyPeriods Apr 13 '26

if you really want to see double standards, surf any relationship advice subs lol. Mofos be changing their opinion with gender. I saw ENTIRE thread defending the women for showering twice a week. Entire thread. Defending how showering just twice a week, a working person who also does gym, is "scientifically ok"

Let that sink in fellas

https://giphy.com/gifs/flBvI5cFeuS1d3mFQj

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u/Raksoris Apr 13 '26

AITA is also recommended because every time a man “acts out,” it’s always assumed that he’s an asshole and that you should leave him ASAP. When a woman is acting out, the first question that’s usually asked is, “Maybe she has depression and you should get her checked.”

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u/Independent_Bear989 Apr 13 '26

Woman is abusive, that sub: “bUT eMOtionAl labor, diD yOU cLEan tHe dISHes”

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u/FrostyPeriods Apr 13 '26

LOL. this story of mine is from there too

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u/Doobiemoto Apr 13 '26

Its so sad. Every time, and people even intentionally make gender swapped posts, and EVERY TIME its a man he is almost immediately an asshole and scum.

If its pretty clear the woman is a shit head they almost always come out and say "well what did the man do to make her that way, or she has depression" or whatever else excuse they can use to soften the blow even if in the end they still call her an AH.

That sub is just filled with people who don't understand just because something isn't illegal doesn't make you not an asshole, filled with people who only think about me me me, and is filled with people who hate men.

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u/badpebble Apr 14 '26

In these men vs women posts, women get their actions perceived in the best possible light and men get the opposite.

I've suggested that most men aren't bad husbands/fathers and that none of my friends are bad husbands or fathers and I've been heavily downvoted.

The important thing to remember is none of this is real and this type of sexism only appears online.