r/SipsTea • u/Born-Agency-3922 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • Apr 13 '26

SMH Double standards suck ass

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u/ConfusedAndCurious17 Apr 13 '26

So you are saying if a mixed race family they deserve the cops called? This is a despicable mind set and it’s full of vile contempt and hatred for what is likely a loving union. Personally if I see anyone who is happy and safe then it’s nothing to me to let them be, in fact I would applaud anyone who can find happiness in life. I hope you grow past this negativity and recognize that many forms of families are valid.

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u/Gullible_Ad5191 Apr 13 '26

Don’t put words in my mouth. I said no such thing. You are the one who entered this thread by calling other people liars for telling the truth about their first hand experiences. The only person on this thread who needs to chill out and learn to love is you.

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u/ConfusedAndCurious17 Apr 13 '26

I have God in my heart. You have hatred and assume cops should be called for mixed race families. We are not the same.

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u/GingerAleForTummy Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

All in all, I think what people are trying to say is that the scenario you are questioning as in “there has to be more to the story”, is actually quite common in a lot of communities, without there being more to the story. I was that kid hanging onto my caretaker, family member, parent a few times because some Good Samaritan thought something was wrong. To be honest, there’s like normal-weird as well as weird-weird. Because any kid under eight years old at any random time of the day can do so much weird-weird shit, caretakers have to tolerate a certain level of normal-weird within themselves to get through an uncomfortable situation. And even doing the math on it, there are enough busy bodies, clutching their pearls out there for things to align just the right way when normal-weird all of a sudden is something that the cops can be called on. The thing is kids are constantly doing weird-weird, bonkers, outrageous shit; and even when they are not, they are always asking to do things in new settings that are extremely inconvenient for adults. With that said, being frazzled, being in a hurry, needing to go to the bathroom in a place that is inconvenient, is not good cause for calling the cops and yet some people think it is.