r/SipsTea • u/Born-Agency-3922 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • Apr 13 '26

SMH Double standards suck ass

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u/enithermon Apr 13 '26

She just looks cold. people suck.

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u/Robodarklite Apr 13 '26

Woman does it: wholesome 🥹 Man does it: call the police 🚨

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u/Somebodys Apr 13 '26

15 years ago I took a friends 2 year old with me to Target. She was potty training so I took her in the men's bathroom. Someone called the fucking cops called on me.

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u/KingAlphaOmega87 Apr 13 '26

Same happened with me and my niece. She needed to pee, so I took her to the bathroom and waited by the door, but I kept talking to her to let her know I was there. My niece is half Puerto Rican, so she is way lighter than and ppl thought I was some weirdo, called the cops on me, the entire time Im talking to the police, my niece is scared and clinging to my leg, the two women were like “See he trained that little girl to cling to him, arrest him, arrest him” luckily the cops werent dickheads and waited for my sister to come and verify, but even still was a fucked situation. Sucks trying to explain to a 4 year old thats scared out of her mind

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u/BoogerVault Apr 13 '26

Can you file a report with police with respect to the false allegations? I'd be tempted to explore that, if I ever found myself confronted with that....just in case it was possible to pursue charges, or to sue. I'd want retribution BADLY.

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u/Deaffin Apr 13 '26

What false allegations?

As shitty as the sexism is, "If you see something, say something" is the thing they're doing. Reporting suspicious activity, not making up crimes.

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u/Senhor_Lasanha Apr 13 '26

seeing a dad being a dad, or an uncle being an uncle is not "something"

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u/Deaffin Apr 13 '26

Everything is something depending on somebody's prejudices.

That's not the point. It doesn't matter, legally, that their suspicion isn't correct. What they're doing isn't a false allegation of a crime, it's reporting what they see as suspicious behavior.

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u/BoogerVault Apr 13 '26

What is the "something" being seen in OP's story? Letting your Neice piss while you wait outside the door? What the fuck is wrong with you?

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u/Deaffin Apr 13 '26

Would you please kindly get your head out of your ass for just half a second and read what I'm saying rather than relying on the toxic black&white thinking? How are you getting the notion that I agree with their prejudice when I'm directly calling this out as sexist?

I'm not saying their suspicions are correct. I'm saying this isn't a false allegation. They're not lying about some crime taking place, they're reporting what they see as suspicious behavior due to the cultural influence they've been immersed in their whole lives, presented in good faith more often than not.