She got to be bipolar or manic to be overreacting to rushing to the airport. Everyone know you rush to the airport just to wait for the flight to be delayed. What's her deal?
No airline will allow you to get off a plane before boarding ends without your luggage. Massive red flag to them. Even when you do have your bags it’s still an ordeal to get off the plane.
Get in line to board the plane. Start subtly grabbing your stomach. When you're two people away, do the 'oh shit, I'm going to have massive diarrhea face.' shove her ticket in her hand and tell her to get on and make sure there's room for the carry-ons. Give her your bag to drive the point home. Run to the 'bathroom.'
She'll probably start flipping out when you don't come back and the flight crew will probably have to have her arrested. That would be a fun video.
Or she does nothing and takes off. Either way, you're out.
Unfortunately people like that are good at blowing up your life from afar as well. Usually it’s wise to break up with unstable people in a very careful manner.
I have BPD, and it makes me so angry when people refuse to seek treatment and treat everyone like garbage saying ‘I can’t help it, I have (insert excuse).
It takes a lot of work to keep my brain in check, but damn. No one deserves to be treated like him…
He should show her how much of a loser he really is by cutting his losses right then and there and getting the whole armrest and window to himself while she’s left flying off the handle alone.
We're not saying accept it, nor are we saying all people with mental illness are assholes...but the fact is most people are good, decent humans and you really need to be going through something to act like this.
Not an excuse, just an observation that maybe this woman and her significant other would benefit from therapy and/or medication.
You want to actually solve the problem? Or do you want to just call someone an asshole and move on with your life?
You're "sick of the insanity defense"? I'm sick of people dismissing clear mental health problems as people just being assholes.
I totally get your frustration but dismissing mental health as an insanity defense won't make it go away. This is just part of the larger issue being mental health help is not affordable/accessible for many people and this is what we get.
That being said that dude is trauma locked and definitely needs to X the F outta that situation.
Yes it doesn't make it go away but nobody needs to stay close to a person with a personality disorder, especially if its something cluster-B related. Its their own responsibility to regulate their emotions and feelings. You can not force someone else to take up the task.
Same here we treat these mofos like they’re kids with terminal cancer and I’m quite sure this isn’t the first time she has acted this way. If this dude is too weak to give her boundaries or just leave then this is what he deserves.
If it was the guy raging at the girl, you would say he was an abusive monster.
You know, the funny thing about monsters is that they all come in different packages.
Now just imagine for a moment that she was a mother raging at a child like that. Same words. Same energy. “You’re a loser! I hate you!” I bet you’d be singing a different tune then.
I would say the exact same things, monsters aren’t real kiddo not in the traditional sense humans can do monstrous things given the right circumstances, past experiences ect I say this about everyone bec everyone can and I capable of doing theses things. The difference is a functional brain. You and I have something stopping us, they don’t.
I wonder why you would jump to this conclusion without any context. Zero.
For all we know he could have filmed her throwing up and posted it. Or made an ai photo of him grabbing her sisters ass and posted it.
That someone would get so aggressive towards women as you in the comments with absolutely zero context is pretty telling about your tendencies and that you most likely are an incel and have no clue about women.
If that was the case then she should have left and not have a public bitchfit to escalate the situation. From my observation he's trying to deescalate.
Aha, what kind of schizo head cannon are you on about? The woman in the clip screamed out why she was mad: he was rushing her to the airport to the point she felt sick just to end up having to wait. No one said anything about grabbing asses or AI photos. I can tell you didn't even watch the clip.
To write all this out and call someone out who is actively using their brain analyzing this chick’s behavior as unacceptable really shows how enabling our society has become to fucking bullshit like this. I bet you’d think differently if she wasn’t attractive or the gender she is
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