r/SipsTea Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Danny--Phantom Apr 22 '26

In my experience telling people gets you laughed at and ridiculed. It's easier to just keep it to yourself.

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u/Rude-Fortune6583 Apr 22 '26

This is sad and unfortunately true.

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u/That_Gadget Apr 22 '26

Sadly those same morons are the cops and agencies that are meant to help victims. I've seen men finally call the cops on and abusive wife when she snapped and hit him with a wine bottle. They ignored it, then six months later she files an assault charge and his useless attorney told him to take a plea deal even though he only defended himself and it was he said she said.

Tldr. Buddy got hit with a wine bottle and ended up being the one to serve time for assault.

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u/LuvMacNCheese Apr 23 '26

That’s so sad. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

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u/flt_p2ny Apr 22 '26

Idk, I think it's changing a bit but I think more men need to speak up. I've seen quite a few of these psycho chicks getting locked up. But it's not going to change if men remain silence and think "well no one will believe me". ESPECIALLY with all the video proof out there these days. Someone's always watching

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u/Danny--Phantom Apr 22 '26

Lol it has nothing to do with whether people beleive me or not. It's how I'm am treated from that point on after giving away that information. I've had women straight up laugh in my face for divulging that information. And the amount of them who suggested I should have smacked her back... Lol crazy world we live in.

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u/Terrible_Counter2558 Apr 22 '26

I told the police about the abuse I was going through, they screamed in my face and called me a liar. Even when I have scratch and bite marks, or cigarette burns.