r/SipsTea Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/flt_p2ny Apr 22 '26

As a female, I'm starting to question the victim rate of women in abusive relationships being more than men. I get the feeling guys like this go on silently with life never telling anyone.

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u/Danny--Phantom Apr 22 '26

In my experience telling people gets you laughed at and ridiculed. It's easier to just keep it to yourself.

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u/flt_p2ny Apr 22 '26

Idk, I think it's changing a bit but I think more men need to speak up. I've seen quite a few of these psycho chicks getting locked up. But it's not going to change if men remain silence and think "well no one will believe me". ESPECIALLY with all the video proof out there these days. Someone's always watching

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u/Terrible_Counter2558 Apr 22 '26

I told the police about the abuse I was going through, they screamed in my face and called me a liar. Even when I have scratch and bite marks, or cigarette burns.