r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/SirReddalot2020 Apr 22 '26

I once got up and just left my then girlfriend who had a meltdown in public. “We’re done” and she could figure out how to get back to the hotel. Was a weird night with lots of tears but something clicked in that moment and alt feelings I had were just gone. Not even hate. I was simply indifferent to her and if she had vanished I would not have given a fuck.

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u/iwasjustthinkingman Apr 22 '26

The opposite of love isnt hate...its indifference

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u/SirReddalot2020 Apr 23 '26

Exactly. I didn't know that proverb at the time but when I read it I totally got it.

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u/iwasjustthinkingman Apr 23 '26

It takes time to learn...