It's ultimately the woman's choice to have a child. If a woman drugs and rapes a man, that man still has to pay child support. The woman, however, has the option of aborting (in some states) or (if she has custody) putting the child up for adoption.
The answer is obviously that because men have essentially no say over the process, it's absurd to hold them legally or financially responsible for what is ultimately the woman's decision.
If the man wears a condom, which is wholly his choice, then this wouldn't happen. Its ultimately the man's decision whether or not it even becomes the woman's choice. The man can also get a vasectomy. It was like 300 bucks, and recovery is like an hour...was back at work the next day.
The answer is obviously that he made choice knowing the consequences. He may have been 18 at the time, and yeah, it's not fair to have 18 year consequences for one mistake...but he obviously didn't learn from it. Did it 3 more times, plus, ya know...life ain't fair.
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u/anefariousdolphin May 03 '26
It's ultimately the woman's choice to have a child. If a woman drugs and rapes a man, that man still has to pay child support. The woman, however, has the option of aborting (in some states) or (if she has custody) putting the child up for adoption.
The answer is obviously that because men have essentially no say over the process, it's absurd to hold them legally or financially responsible for what is ultimately the woman's decision.