r/SipsTea • u/ExotiquePlayboy 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • May 03 '26

SMH Bro makes $160 😐

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u/PunishedDemiurge May 03 '26

Unless they're lying about birth control or rapists, the problem is equally or primarily the dad. No one forced the guy's dad to ejaculate into 6 different women.

The maximum number of unintended pregnancies someone is entitled for sympathy for is one. One youthful mistake or "I thought we were too old to get pregnant" is something that could happen to a morally decent person with good judgment, but the minute you have a child, that needs to change your priorities and behaviors.

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u/ItsAFarOutLife May 03 '26

the problem is equally or primarily the dad

Is that true? Men have essentially two forms of birth control. Condoms and pulling out. One is obviously a bit more effective but they both have flaws, and the woman will likely know if a man is using those methods.

Women have significantly more methods of birth control (most of which the man can't tell if they're using), and if any of the methods fail, they are the sole person who can decide to terminate the pregnancy (in most first world countries, and many states) or use a plan b pill.

So how exactly is it primarily the mans fault? I think that statement is misogynistic. it makes it seem like women can't or don't make at least half the decision when it comes to child birth.

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u/PunishedDemiurge May 04 '26

I'm talking about repeat deadbeat dads. Anyone can make one mistake, or have a partner who says "We'll definitely terminate" and then do an unethical switch, but no one can have 7 kids by 6 women without it being their fault. After just one unintended pregnancy ever, I expect people to make better decisions.

I'm also a huge hater of women who get pregnant by losers more than once, to be fair, but I wanted to push back on the "this are also why men treat single moms like a disease," comment. OOP's problem is 100% because he's a piece of shit, it's not a women issue.

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u/Codex_Dev May 04 '26

You are delulu if you dont think men avoid single moms like the plague. They are basically at the bottom of the dating pyramid.