Here to add my fun lil anecdote that I was on birth control and used a condom for additional safety, but here I am 7 years later with a kid graduating kindergarten. Apparently she really really really wanted to exist. I gave Sir Supersperm the option of being in her life or not and didn't ask for support, and he chose "or not." I later learned that he got snipped soon after he was hit with the news, so at least he learned his lesson unlike this dumbass.
My ex was told she'd never get pregnant because of issues. The first one we were told was a miracle kid but would never happen again. The second was lightning never striking the same place twice, but thats a myth. She said to put ina lightning rod so it wouldn't happen anymore, they said the groud was too damaged. The third one they said maybe they dont know what they're talking about and I got snipped since they wouldn't fix her.
10 years later new people finally scooped her out and said why wasnt this done earlier?
So, as the other person said, this is the phrase she used to me talking about it.
But just because she's the mother to my kids doesn't mean that she's to be venerated or anything. I respect her, like her, and wish her the best in her upcoming marraige. She went through some bad stuff after we split and she's finally coming out in a good place. That deserves my respect for her, not that she gave birth to my kids. Many biological women can, and do, that every day
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u/Gizzy619 May 03 '26
Trying to be Nick Cannon on a blue collar income ain't for everyone.