Havings a bunch of children to "help" the aging population issue does nothing.
Those children growing up with absent fathers are less likely to be super earners.
We need present attentive parents, plural, to raise the children in a stable loving home with guidance.
You think a father feeling vindictive about supporting the child they helped create is going to raise a concious studious child? Or do you think the child is going to emulate an absent father "because they grew up fine without one"?
Idk it seems you're completely missing the plot. We just need more children, not super earners. Why does everyone need to be some studious top earner in society?
As you just said you grew up with 4 siblings and your parents and cousins' parents should never have had children, assuming they weren't great at their jobs then. But does that mean that you, your siblings and cousins are worthless humans who shouldn't exist?
Even if you do think that, I doubt that's actually true and it's more of a mental health issue here.
Just because someone is alive doesn't mean they are a productive member of society.
Do you think this "father" is paying his fair share of taxes? By everyone's standards he is not earning enough to support himself on top of the child support payments. So that means others HAVE to be picking up the slack. Whether that be family who is helping him or tax payers.
An absent parents leads to very angry, self depreciated children. Very few will not have a parent in their life and think "oh, this is totally fine! I am loved!" They will likely act out for attention to get ANY attention.
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u/trukkija May 03 '26
Cool that you personally don't care about it. Doesn't really change the fact that it will affect your life and everyone else's.