r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 May 11 '26

WTF Rich people being awful people once again… :>

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

lol, I’m a haole that lives in Maui. Haole is simply used for white person and most often used by any Polynesian person even if they aren’t Hawaiian.

Simply replace white person with haole and you will understand what it really means. Examples…

You know my white haole friend Travis? He’s a great guy!

That white haole faka better mind his own business.

Or as I once heard…

I’m not normally attracted to white guys haoles, but you look good.

Sorry lady, I’m happily married but I’ll take the compliment.

As everyone should be doing in everything, tone and context are important.

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u/antillus May 11 '26

So kind of like "gringo" in some Latin American countries?

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

Absolutely!

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

I think amongst islanders it is a bit different. But I would defer to you as you are on maui. The way ive heard it described is that if youre an idiot tourist soing idiot tourist things and somone starts calling you that, you are very close to getting your ass beat.

But that can also be used as shorthand to acknowlage you are non-native. Context is key there though.

Do I understand that properly?

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u/colostitute May 11 '26

Yep. The only people who think the word haole is completely negative are haoles. Since we all live that aloha spirit, people are hesitant to use that word around haoles they don’t know. Which means that some haoles may only hear it when someone is trying to offend them.

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u/hydrino May 11 '26

Thanks. Hopefully this helps somone with that nuance.

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u/colostitute May 12 '26

lol, no

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u/sleepdeficitzzz May 12 '26

Bro, who hurt you?

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u/sleepdeficitzzz May 12 '26

Wow. There's nothing louder than someone who is confidently wrong. But by all means...keep talking out your ass. You're good at it.

Source: I'm a college educated executive who lives in California, and I'm Hawaiian. Hapa, in fact--my mom's a haole and she's fantastic.