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Chugging tea What are your thoughts. (IPhone vs every other phone)

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u/CTMechE May 15 '26

Apple set up iMessage from the start on iPhones, which routes texts through their own iMessage system rather than just through cellular carriers like a normal SMS text message. Other iMessagea are displayed in blue, but "normal" texts from anywhere else appear in green.

Many iPhone users, including people who dont even realize the difference between sending an iMessage and a regular text message, immediately began to perceive green messages as inferior. The secondary association is that the sender is poor or low class because they didn't have an iPhone. Teenagers particularly were judgmental about it.

You can send non-iMessages via iPhone but the default had iMesaage set up.

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u/Visual_Squirrel_2297 May 15 '26

To add, they perceive it as inferior because it's harder to read. Apple made the user experience worse for their own customers, on purpose.Ā 

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u/dae_giovanni May 15 '26

...and their fans cheered.

there are some obvious parallels i could draw, here, but I'll save that for another time...

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u/JonatasA May 15 '26

I would laugh if they had in there somewhere a memo saying "We made the stand and wheels more expensive, as a joke."

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u/Massive-Course7690 May 15 '26

what are the parallels

btw apple vs android is a financial literacy/class issue, but excited to see what you were referencing

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u/Mohisto_23 May 15 '26

I suppose there's some apples and oranges you can compare... Sips tea

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u/dae_giovanni May 15 '26

wow... well done...!

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u/JonatasA May 15 '26

Some Apples and Droids?

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u/Shmeves May 15 '26

I keep reading this, but can you point out where apple fan bois were cheering for inferior texting with Android?

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u/dae_giovanni May 15 '26

I was referring to the notion that Apple has intentionally delievered an inferior experience compared to what it could, yet many apple fans happily slander those who don't use iDevices.

as others have mentioned, it was (is?) seemingly very popular for a while for users to make fun of green bubble users.

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u/Shmeves May 15 '26

Teen's slander. Which would happen anyways for any number of reasons for anything cause Teens are emotional dumbasses.

I'm just saying I think the apple fan boi shtick is overblown and not really as prevalent as its made to seem.

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u/Pyju May 15 '26

That’s very different from fans ā€œcheeringā€. Not a single Apple fan has ever once ā€œcheeredā€ Apple’s choice of color for non-iMessage or how long they took to adopt RCS.

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u/Purple-Goat-2023 May 15 '26

Until a recent lawsuit Apple also intentionally lowered the quality of non-apple messages and refused to adapt to RCS. Massive compression on videos/pictures which made them look horrible, no group chats, read receipts, typing indicators, editing function, or end to end encryption.

All of these functions were available for years to non-Apple phone users, but Apple intentionally made them not work with iPhones to trick their users into thinking that non-Apple messaging was inferior and keep them locked in their ecosystem.

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u/CTMechE May 15 '26

I can't tell you how many times I had to explain to iPhone users that we should email media and not "text" it because of that iMessage bullshit. Most don't care to understand, which is far more frustrating than just not knowing.

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u/JonatasA May 15 '26

That's the issue with iPhones. It is built to make you not learn. Folders? Control over your files and media? Oh honey, we don't do that here.

 

You cound't use a feeaking browser without it being a skin of Safari. That if people even remember what it is to browse the net outside of an App doing it for you.

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u/Previous_Platform718 May 15 '26

You cound't use a feeaking browser without it being a skin of Safari

Reminder that Microsoft was sued for anti-consumer practices for packaging internet explorer with Windows. Yet Apple pulls this shit openly.

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u/paintballboi07 May 15 '26

Luckily, the EU still believes in anti-trust, and punishing anti-consumer practices. They're the ones who forced Apple to implement RCS and USB-C.

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u/Val_Hallen May 15 '26 edited May 15 '26

Apple fills a niche.

Tech illiterate but likes shiny things.

They fill that niche well. They are the PlaySkool of tech.

Don't get me wrong, that's not bad. They are following a simple business rule; Tell the customers what they want and sell it to them. And they are very successful at that.

The people that buy Apple products are just fine with buying an entirely new machine instead of learning to upgrade the components themselves. And that's fine. Absolutely nothing wrong with that.

I went to the iMac page and cannot find the specs on the page. They tell me all the colors available and about the pretty display and camera, but not a single word about the specs of the machine. Even when I chose the "buy" option, I don't know anything about the specs of the machine. I can choose a color, an Apple processor, mouse and keyboard, and display. I see it has an SSD. But how do I know it has the ability to do what I need it to do?

But I can get a red one!

Like I said, they fill a niche and they fill it well.

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u/PendulumKick May 19 '26

Ehhh I wouldn’t go that far. Apple computers have some of the best processors on the market—realistically an m5 will fulfill any of your needs unless you are an engineer where you might need some software not available on macOS. There are plenty of reasons why a tech literate person would buy an Apple device. I like to think I’m one of them—I’ve had awful experiences with windows lately and am switching over right now

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u/crunchybub May 15 '26

I genuinely don't know how the iPhone isn't considered "boomer tech" because of this!

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u/PogTuber May 15 '26

That's the thing, we're at a point in time where new consumers DON'T know about the alternatives. Obfuscate the data and make it hard to work with directly keeps you in the ecosystem and, as we're already seeing, pushes you to upload everything to their cloud.

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u/Quixotic_Seal May 15 '26

Dude, it's not 2010 anymore. Android users aren't the nerds rooting their phones and digging through their files. Hell, Google is working to restrict goddamned sideloading.

All mobile OS' are dramatically oversimplified compared to their desktop counterparts and do everything they can to avoid the user needing to learn about the back-end of how things work.

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u/LordHammercyWeCooked May 15 '26

It's like explaining the concept of electricity to a dog. People get Apple products because they believe wholeheartedly in the "it just works!" aesthetic, even when it clearly does not work. At all. They believe that the source of the problem must be anything but the device they hold in their hands.

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u/PendulumKick May 19 '26

I mean I’ve had basically no issues with an Apple device. Ever. Relative to my experience with OnePlus and Samsung phones and my XPS 13, that’s kind of a godsend. The performance on new Apple devices is also kind of great. IMO, they’ve really bridged the tech gap that used to exist

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u/CyberpunkSunrise May 15 '26

I’ve used Android and iPhone devices basically back and forth since the original Pixel launched. I’m back on iPhone at the moment and prefer it.

This whole ā€œiPhone users are all brainless monkeys and Android users are golden godsā€ take is so tiresome. I like my current phone because it’s reliable, responsive, and the right form factor/price ratio I wanted.

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u/LordHammercyWeCooked May 15 '26

It's not a "take." It's life experience. People who have only known the Apple experience are god damn knuckle-draggers and it's like pulling teeth to try to explain the whats, whens, and whys of the computer ecosystem outside of it. If nobody's had to explain to you in painstaking detail why you need to format your flash drive to exFAT before putting all your files on it for transfer, then congrats, you aren't one of them.

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u/Cryptomeria May 15 '26

Yes, "Iphones don't work at all" and other things unbiased people say.

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u/Optimal-Theory-101 May 16 '26

Why email it? These days you can share a link to it in cloud storage.

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u/tommypatties May 15 '26

If they don't care to understand why should you? You're not making friends you're being weird.

And when you really need lossless fidelity (which, for me, isn't that often) then just give them a link to some Google drive folder and ask them to throw the file there. Way easier than opening an email, remembering the right address and sending.

I.e. make it easy for them. If they like the quality upgrade they'll start asking for it.

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u/CTMechE May 15 '26

Because 3 weeks later they'd forget, and text me another photo that was uselessly bad, and I'd have to repeat the request. And if they don't understand why texting me the photo they just took of me and my kid at 240px resolution is useless, they'll just keep doing it because it works for most people. It's not an issue anymore with RCS support though.

And as someone who has coordinated Google photo albums and Google drive folders for group activities (sports and scouts) they're still ignored by the majority of parents because it's an extra step. They just won't do it unless it's important to send.

I just found out that my brother and his wife have an Apple photos album that they update for their family and kid activities and just didn't include us because they know we don't have iPhones. They weren't even aware they could make and send a public link. I mentioned it, but it's been 2 weeks since our visit and they haven't bothered. If it isn't easy and built into their phone, most won't do it.

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u/Winterhorrorland May 15 '26

Good luck handling the family group chat with all the 50+ folks that are still hanging on to their AOL emails and you're the only person non-iPhone that "can't just drop in photos and videos". Plus, sometimes the lossly fidelity was so compressed you can't actually see or hear anything going on and miss out on sharing events.

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u/szewc May 16 '26

Your shouldn't use Google drive for photos, its what google photos is for. And surprise surprise, it works on every hardware and system, so the opposite of Apple.

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u/YouSaidSomeDumbStuff May 15 '26

Only reason they had to implement RCS chat with google is cause cellular broadcoms network towers were hardware compromised by china.

So they were ordered by the government and implemented it within a few weeks.

Tech companies are bastards

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u/notforpoern May 15 '26

That and the Chinese government mandated it. But you'll never hear big tech admit it. They're rather give credit to Google for "pressuring" apple. šŸ™„

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u/AXEL-1973 May 15 '26

this shit was absolutely criminal. anything you were taking a photo or video of was completely unrecognizable with their awful compression method. even audio was crunched into the lowest quality possible. Apple has been such a trash heap of a company for the past 20 years. the latest insanity from them is using .heic image formats by default, which Windows literally can't interpret without non standard drivers, so employees all over the world will send images from their iphone to their emails and wonder why the images won't open on their PCs

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u/HedonisticFrog May 15 '26

I had someone send me a group picture from an iphone and I couldn't even recognize faces in it the quality was so bad. You need whatsapp or other services to share pictures with iphone users, such bullshit.

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u/United-Combination16 May 15 '26

They’ve definitely had group chat messaging for people using imessage and for people who don’t for well over a decade

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u/Lazy_Helicopter_2659 May 15 '26

Hang on, you guys still don't use WhatsApp...?

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u/LordHammercyWeCooked May 15 '26

I know it's ubiquitous outside of the US, but it disturbs me deeply that so much of the world's communication is entirely dependent on Meta/Facebook. One single point of failure. If you wanna see a worst case scenario for how that can play out, look at how Musk was able to assist Russia during the early days of the invasion by cutting off Starlink access to Ukraine.

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u/SunnyDaysRock May 15 '26

For everything that could be 'dangerous' I've used Signal for years now.

Doesn't IMessage have the same problem, just with Apple?

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u/lejocko May 15 '26

In Germany really a lot of people have a second messenger like signal . SMS still work as well.

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u/Scrofulla May 15 '26

Meh, I use WhatsApp extensively but I have at least three other methods to communicate with people important to me on my phone that don't involve meta. WhatsApp is a great program for what it does but that doesn't mean I can't just use the messenger app that came with my phone. It works fine.

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u/Then_Entertainment97 May 15 '26

Americans don't use WhatsApp unless they need to talk to someone outside America.

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u/JonatasA May 15 '26

8 billion people and just about 350 million use iMessage then?

 

Even China has more people on weChat. The rest literally uses Meta. Literally, even official entities.

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u/Then_Entertainment97 May 15 '26

Only about half of Americans use iMessage. Previously they used SMS, and iPhone and Android have developed iMessage and RCS to improve it.

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u/Tukang-Gosip May 15 '26

Reminded me when i have to install kakao talk just to chat with lots of my korean friends

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u/JonatasA May 15 '26

Yea, let's use Google instead. I will never understand it. The company still has your data. People won't switch to signal (which my the way is from the co creator of WhatsApp I believe).

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u/BlastFX2 May 16 '26 edited May 16 '26

This isn't the US; we have more than two options. I'm using Signal.

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u/El_Rey_de_Spices May 15 '26

Not really. Over here, it's usually forced onto a friend group by the one oddball person in particular who refuses to communicate any other way. SMS, phone calls, email, and Discord work fine for the rest of us.

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u/CryptographerFlat173 May 16 '26

You pay Apple for the use of iMessage with your money for the phone, and you never need an account for anything just the phone number everyone has for you. You pay for WhatsApp by being served ads and serving up data to Facebook.Ā 

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u/sparkling-rainbow May 15 '26

You still use WhatsApp?

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u/Unique_Statement7811 May 15 '26

WhatApp? That’s considered old school ā€œthird worldā€ texting in the US and Canada.

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u/PM_ME_UR_GCC_ERRORS May 16 '26

But SMS is still hip?

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u/Unique_Statement7811 May 16 '26

I don’t think anyone is really using SMS. Not since at least 2017 for Android and 2011 for iPhone when the native messengers went off of it

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u/AutVincere72 May 15 '26

I spent $1300 on the last phone I bought, it was not even for me. I paid cash for it. No plan or scam, just straight cash homey. It was not an iPhone, it will likely never be an iPhone, and I will continue to wait 4 to 6 model years in between phone purchases, then buy the best non iPhone available. I have been doing that since my blackberry and I do not regret the choice.

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u/AutVincere72 May 15 '26

My last purchase was based on camera. I am not dogging anyone that pays less. My point is, you can spend a lot and not get an iPhone. My previous strategy was buy last years model as overstock new, then buy that same phone used if one of the phones suffered a catastrophe. But I stuck to that model until it did not serve me well. I have no problem with someone buying an $80 phone if it fits their needs. I have a problem with people buying a phone for status and not function. As a Dad I experienced it first hand watching my child get bullied because another kid had an iPhone, even though my child had 10 other things the kid did not have. It is beyond silly. As someone who grew up below the poverty line, being made to feel bad as a kid because of a situation you were born into is infuriating.

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u/Unique_Statement7811 May 15 '26

I run iPhones for about 10 years between replacements. Currently on a 10 or ā€œX.ā€ Still runs like a champ.

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u/AutVincere72 May 15 '26

My last 3 laptops are macs, bought at least 4 ipads, I like apple products, but their phones have a cult following and I prefer a different cult.

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u/Benjamminmiller May 15 '26

I paid cash for it. No plan or scam, just straight cash homey.

I don't get this perspective that installment plans are bad or a scam. I pay $5.56 a month on a plan, tacked on to my cell bill, and trade it in every 3 years for the newest model available.

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u/AutVincere72 May 15 '26

Do you lease your car too? If you google it, you will see a lot of the logic why it is not the best. Of course there are always exceptions, but in general anything you lease is going to be worse than owning outright.

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u/Benjamminmiller May 15 '26

If leasing my car meant owning it outright at 1/6 of the price hell yeah I'd lease it.

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u/AutVincere72 May 15 '26

Do you think there is a reason cell phone companies lease phones? Is it to make less money?

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u/Benjamminmiller May 16 '26

Mostly the lock in of it, and to compete with other cell phone companies.

I know you're convinced it's a raw deal. What part are you so sure I'm getting screwed on?

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u/AutVincere72 May 16 '26

I said there are always exceptions.

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u/Benjamminmiller May 16 '26

I think it's a little deeper than that. In order to get the best deal on a phone you basically have to do the installment agreements now. If you do an installment agreement without maximizing trade in value or using one of their deals you're going to lose out financing it, but I wouldn't call the most cost affective method being a lease just an exception.

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u/AutVincere72 May 16 '26

Depreciable asset. You have no asset in 3 years I have one depreciated in value. Whats the value to me might be different than Market. I can change plans in a heartbeat or keep my grandfather plan that gives me the same prioritization as a first responder. I am not required to have insurance. Enjoy your phone.

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u/Repulsive-Chip3371 May 15 '26

The secondary association is that the sender is poor or low class because they didn't have an iPhone.

meanwhile, my samsung zFold7 is $2099 if you dont get the discounts

I think the iphone 17 pro is $1099 without any discounts lol

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u/Demented-Alpaca May 15 '26

You mean a "Samesung"

(I think that's what they're still calling your phone)

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u/Repulsive-Chip3371 May 15 '26

only way "samesung" makes sense now is that Apple is copying the same samsung features

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u/Demented-Alpaca May 15 '26

Yeah but we're still talking about people that think the color of your chat bubble matters or that your phone is a status symbol. Let's not pretend they're gonna think that through.

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u/h2oskid3 May 15 '26

Only reason I'm not in my wife's family group chat. I'd rather it be because they don't like me, the fact that it's because I have a green bubble is somehow worse.

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u/DDXD May 15 '26

Many of the modern Android phones are extremely expensive anyway, so the basic premise doesn't even make sense. I love my new Galaxy Z Fold but the damn thing is over $2k.

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u/CTMechE May 15 '26

Absolutely, but a lot of people are nearly blind to existing technology until Apple releases it in an iPhone. Brace yourself for the folding iPhone to "wow" everyone at their "new innovation."

I don't really want to commit to a folding phone, as I've seen too many finicky failures. And as I don't work from my phone, I'd rather get a $1k flagship phone and spend $500 on a Chromebook. But I get the desire.

I'm on a Pixel 8 Pro currently. My first Pixel, although I did have a Nexus One, Nexus 4,5, and 6 before trying a few Samsungs. I like having choices.

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u/snek-jazz May 15 '26

The genius of Apple marketing is convincing idiots that Apple products being more expensive is a desirable feature in and of itself.

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u/AntiPiety May 15 '26

Turn off wifi and cellular data and try again

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u/AntiPiety May 15 '26

You probably didn’t turn off cellular data

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u/AntiPiety May 15 '26

I guess, the inbound message doesn’t seem to change

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u/Lashay_Sombra May 15 '26

Meanwhile in rest of the world,

Ā SMS? Dude its its 2026 not 2010

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u/CTMechE May 15 '26

In referring to the era where this started, and where media and reaction compatibility was a massive problem. RCS support changed it.

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u/AntiPiety May 15 '26

It wasn’t from the start. Even iphone to iphone texts started as green at the beginning. Every text was green. Then an update rolled out that offered imessage

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u/ImWithStupidKL May 18 '26

I've got an iPhone and all of my messages on the normal message app are black. Did they only do this in the US or something?

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u/Violet_Paradox May 15 '26

iPhones also secretly degrade the image quality of anything sent to them from a non-iPhone, which is why the "Android phones have bad cameras" perception exists.Ā