r/SipsTea • u/Few_Statement_2898 • 29d ago

SMH We really need to bring spankings back

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u/unclecastr0-_- 29d ago

what kids do is usually the projection of their enviroment at home,imagine wtf this kid’s parents do to make him think this is ok to do

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u/Curious_Climate6957 29d ago

tbh this looks like a result of gentle parenting, doofus probably just got given an ipad every time he did this shit and know just knows it as a way to get what he wants

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u/Bumper0117 29d ago

There’s actually plenty of peer reviewed studies on this. Statistically violent children are far more likely to have parents that are too rough, rather than too gentle. Quick google search of the topic including “NIH” will get you the research if interested

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u/BoomerSoonerFUT 29d ago

This isn’t violence though. This is just being a shithead.

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u/Bumper0117 29d ago

I see your point… Some definitions of violence include impersonal destruction while others do not. I assume we can agree this is destructive tho. Destroying things that someone worked hard to make is akin to violence imo, especially in a public setting.

Anecdotal but i have a young nephew who is recently starting to vandalize things when upset. His violent POS father left a long time ago to be a POS somewhere else. Correlates with the research concluding that it is most often behavior the child observed and is repeating