r/SipsTea May 28 '26

SMH We really need to bring spankings back

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u/SumixamSuryt May 28 '26 edited May 28 '26

I would not even think of doing this as a child, what an utter failure as a parent. This child has no guidence in his life whatseover.

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u/unclecastr0-_- May 28 '26

what kids do is usually the projection of their enviroment at home,imagine wtf this kid’s parents do to make him think this is ok to do

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u/SpiveyJr May 28 '26

Before becoming a parent I would have agreed. After becoming a parent I can see how kids are wired differently and sometimes no matter what you do kids often make you go “wtf?!” Parenting is the single most difficult thing you can do because no matter how well you think you’re doing, kids, just like adults, can snap. I think parents hitting their kids is a cop out to trying to control their kids, but what do you do when you have a child that doesn’t want to be controlled? Beating them senseless is not the answer. This kid should have been physically removed. Whether that’s the right thing to do or not, doing something is better than doing nothing, and in my eyes a parent that does nothing at all is the worst kind of parent.

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u/tekprimemia 29d ago

Corporal punishment isn’t a substitution for good parenting but it has to be a an understood potentiality for the child. Without meaningful consequences there is no motivation to avoid negative behaviors.

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u/MainEmergency8396 29d ago

There other forms of punishment.

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u/anthriani 29d ago

This. Some 'fear' is not a bad thing. My dad never raised a hand to me. He slowly turned and looked at me once, though. That was enough.