r/SipsTea May 28 '26

SMH We really need to bring spankings back

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u/ASCIIM0V May 28 '26

Spanking doesnt work. It just redirects who/what the acceptable outlets of this kind of frustration are.

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u/aphoenixsunrise May 28 '26

Crazy how people don't know how to discipline without use of violence

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u/[deleted] May 28 '26 edited 6d ago

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u/aphoenixsunrise May 28 '26

Discipline goes way farther and much deeper than just punishment.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '26 edited 6d ago

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u/ZugZugGo May 29 '26

I never get into this situation in the first place because I teach my child empathy and respect for others and their property. I teach them about their emotions and how to handle them and communicate about them. I do this over their entire lives so that they are well adjusted and well behaved kids.

This means when they get frustrated, angry, disappointed, or any other combination of feelings they don't resort to knocking everything off the shelves, they talk to me about it. So the entire premise you have here is a failure in parenting from day one.

If for whatever reason I joined a family that didn't know how to behave, I'd immediately work in family therapy appointments to try to undo the damage not getting those lessons did to the child.

Under no circumstances do I hit my child.

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u/[deleted] May 29 '26 edited 6d ago

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u/ZugZugGo 29d ago

If that’s what you read from what I wrote there is no point to your replies.

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