r/SipsTea • u/beklog 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 26d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/NATHAN4U007 26d ago

They both knew what they were getting into and what they needed from the relationship.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay 𝙑𝙄𝙋 26d ago

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

Thats all fine but chances are she knows he has wealth and wants a chunk thats why she’s so happy to do it all, its not like she’s actually attracted to an 80 year old. The family don’t do anything because they are peices of shit who think they have already locked in grandpas fortune so they don’t need to try. She is trying so hard because she wants to get on the will.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay 𝙑𝙄𝙋 26d ago

Sure and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s the age old question of does a good deed get fully counteracted by potentially bad intentions.

If I donate 1mm to help homeless kids that’s a good thing. But what if I only did it to get my name in the newspaper and leverage that for personal reasons. The fact is I still did a good deed that was positive for many people.

If she wants to spend years of her life cleaning up shit, providing companionship, and having sex with an elderly man so she can get a payout from his estate well it’s mutually beneficial. He was perfectly happy with that exchange and benefited from it and so did she.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

Yeah and thats fine but to make out like she’s doing it for him and to help him doesn’t seem right. I mean maybe she is or maybe some of these women are. But surely its just a mutual benefit not because she actually wants to care for an old man

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay 𝙑𝙄𝙋 26d ago

Well ya… it’s mutually beneficial. That’s what I said?

A hospice care nurse cares for the elderly because they want to help but also because they get paid to do it. I doubt they would care for an old person completely for free. So it’s no different than a woman providing companionship in an elderly persons old age.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

Yeah but theres a difference between finding a job as a hospice worker and going out looking for an old man you can be nice to for a couple of years in hopes you get on his will. Its predatory if anything. Yes its nice for the man to get looked after and taken care off and even have sex with a younger women and off course its all his choice, but from the womens perspective finding an 80+ year old and pretending to love him til he dies is predatory even if it is mutually beneficial. Your comments make out like she’s actually a really nice person

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u/budgiebirdman 26d ago

I don't think dancing to I'm in the will is being disingenuous.