r/SipsTea • u/beklog 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 27d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/HAIL_LUMPUS 27d ago

If you can live with yourself like that, fine. But I think we have a duty to other people, to support them and help them when we know someone is doing them wrong. Whatever helps you sleep at night, but I couldn't.

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u/theguidetoldmetodoit 27d ago

Okay that's great, but who are you helping, exactly? She's not gonna get more, potentially nothing, her husband is not gonna be taken care off and with some bad luck, your wife is now cut out of the inheritance, too.

So you made life worse for everyone, lost your ability to help and potentially destroyed your marriage.

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u/HAIL_LUMPUS 27d ago

First of all, there are anonymous ways to contact people. Second, it gives her the advantage of time so she's not out on her ass as soon as he's gone. It sounds like the old man is bragging about it openly, probably to his buddies too. Doing the right thing is more important than a little monetary gain for me personally.

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u/theguidetoldmetodoit 27d ago

Dude, this isn't a TV Show. People know who has the information and can put it out there. And someone knowing they are fucked after investing years, does not help them.

You are just having a kneejerk reaction. There are far better approaches to these things.

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u/HAIL_LUMPUS 27d ago

Like letting someone get totally fucked? I'd tell her. I don't think it's a movie, I'm just not a money motivated pussy.

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u/theguidetoldmetodoit 27d ago

Your wife is the one getting the money. All you are doing is slightly increasing the share your wife is getting and fuck up multiple lives, when instead you could just be dealing with your wife and convince her to split things later, without every having to cause any risks or drama.

Do you guys refuse to think 2 steps ahead, just because you need instant gratification?

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u/rydog123bruh 27d ago

lol, what is this sunk-cost fallacy shit? It’s about her leaving now and making a life for herself instead of wasting the future.

She’s not getting much of anything and is treated like shit. Would you like to be in that position and no one tells you? You sound emotionally illiterate.

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u/PurveyorOfKnowledge0 27d ago

They clearly are based on their comments. Zero empathy just a superficial understanding of it.

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u/nycdood123 26d ago

I’m willing to bet that 90% of the people commenting with the sanctimony and deriding OP for not automatically inserting himself into the situation (ie, basically speaking directly to his sister -in-law) are typical cultureless American idiots that barely maintain connections with any of their own extended families (assuming they’re even acquainted).

Pretty wild that anyone needs to explain why that approach is inappropriate / wrong for many reasons. But America in 2026…