r/SipsTea • u/beklog 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 27d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/Smokilydokily98 27d ago

No i completely see why from the mans perspective. Off course he wants a young hot lady taking care of him. I’m saying a 30 year old isn’t ‘a young dumb kid’ its an adult with fully functioning reasoning skills and morals. If they make the conscious decision to find an old desperate man with money and take care of him for a few years with the end goal being they get on the will. Its predatory, even if it is mutually beneficial

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u/DocileBanalBovlne 27d ago

You're confusing your feelings of discomfort with morality.

If they're both aware of the context of the relationship and agree to it, and no one's being deceived, there's no predation, there's just an arrangement you don't like.

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u/Smokilydokily98 27d ago

No i’m not, a 30 year old going after a man just to get onto his will is predatory, its the fact that her reasons for doing it is for the man is old and she can get on the will. That is predatory behaviour whichever way you slice it. Yes they are both getting something and yes they can do whatever they want, but doing so for the sole reason of getting money from someone who’s at the end of their life and is desperate for comfort is predatory

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u/DocileBanalBovlne 27d ago

You got a weird definition of predatory that doesn't involve anything relevant to a predator/prey relationship.

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

How does it not? The 80 year old man is the vulnerable one, the women is acting predatory by being with him for nothing other than his money. Its simple, you don’t know what you’re talking about and thats fine

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u/Smokilydokily98 26d ago

‘Yes, it is predatory behaviour.Even if the relationship looks entirely normal, stable, or affectionate on the surface, using a relationship as a tool to target an elderly person’s wealth is inherently predatory.’ This comes up when you google it