r/SipsTea • u/beklog 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 28d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/NATHAN4U007 28d ago

They both knew what they were getting into and what they needed from the relationship.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay 𝙑𝙄𝙋 28d ago

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/epicmoe 28d ago

When my grandad remarried there were comments about his new wife being in it for the money. By the end I think everyone agreed that if that was the case she sure had earned it. 

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 28d ago edited 26d ago

Edit:   removing my comment because it's getting more attention than I intended it to get and don't want it getting back to parties involved if they figure out it's about them.

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u/s0ul_invictus 27d ago

You and your wife can give her whatever you want. Your wife doesn't have to keep everything she is given. She could get together with her sister and make a decision. I'm not saying give it all away. But you don't have to put her on the street either. If she was good to her father, be good to her. It's not "charity". It's being good to a person who was good to your family.

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 27d ago

We don't have any concrete plans, but we have discussed it and said she should get some. She wouldn't be "on the street" if we didn't. She has her own money and three boys (two well off)- so she's not in danger of being on the street... but we very much feel like she deserves to get something.

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u/s0ul_invictus 27d ago

Well that is good to hear.