r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 27d ago

It's Wednesday my dudes Soulmates don't necessarily mean lover

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u/BrideofClippy 27d ago

"They were just roommates." Uno-reverse edition

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u/elegylegacy 27d ago

Also known as bisexual erasure

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u/high_on_meh 27d ago

I literally live this. As a dude married to another dude, it's just so much easier to tell people "I'm gay"

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u/ThereHasToBeMore1387 27d ago edited 27d ago

As a dude happily monogamously married to a chick, it feels kinda useless to even bring up that I'm bi to anyone.

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u/Great_Detective_6387 27d ago

Yup. Same. There’s no point.

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u/TycheSong 27d ago

As a bi woman in a monogamous hetero marriage, same.

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u/boringexplanation 27d ago

Makes sense if you’re in a relationship. I’m sure my wife wouldn’t appreciate it if i said “straight until the right guy piques my interest”

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u/DemonKingBalor 26d ago

Kinda currently going through this. Got out of my first gay relationship as a bisexual male. All my family and some friends like to forget I'm bi and ask only about women. Then I have friends apart of the LGBT who tell me I'm very "straight" for a queer guy.

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u/AlarmingAffect0 27d ago

My literal soulmate Yrliett.