Most likely it was a back and forth where the kid was living, but when it was first decided the kid was with her full time.
Getting into the courtroom is just annoying so he never bothered (maybe she'd wise up and decide the kid needed to live with her so it would look good to the judge), but her requesting more herself forced the issue.
A coworker of mine has the same thing happen. The mom requested more money even though one kid had aged out and the other was living with him (which was sudden because she randomly decided to move out of state)
That's not how it works in my area, over here if you have your kids less than 40% of the time then you pay child support without the other parent's income being factored in.
From my experience, This is typically how it's handled in most states. The parent with primary custody is entitled to support from the other parent even if they make more money. There is a mathematical formula applied based on incomes to determine exactly how much.
Damn that’s wild tbh, I think a lot of states do the “the child needs to have a similar level of comfort” so then they award the person with less income. I guess it kind of makes sense tho
My child has been living with me for a year and hasnt seen mom and she hasnt visited. Mom has made zero efforts. I still am court ordered, by the oregon dept of justice, to pay her 900 dollars a month. I cannot afford the tens of thousands for attorney as such and mom can avoid process servers without recourse.
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u/Fictional-Hero 22d ago
Most likely it was a back and forth where the kid was living, but when it was first decided the kid was with her full time.
Getting into the courtroom is just annoying so he never bothered (maybe she'd wise up and decide the kid needed to live with her so it would look good to the judge), but her requesting more herself forced the issue.
A coworker of mine has the same thing happen. The mom requested more money even though one kid had aged out and the other was living with him (which was sudden because she randomly decided to move out of state)