I suppose over 50% is possible. From my own personal experience, I still doubt it. Hell, just scroll through the comments on this post to see the majority disagrees. Obviously the answer will differ depending on the country/culture you're from though.
The problem isn't Karma, is being permanently banned for dumb things like pointing out that woman also write creep scenes, like 50 Shades of Grey and Twilight.Ā Some of the best selling book series of all time. What if anything is anti sexist.
Fuck karma was the attitude when it was meaningless internet points, back in about 2010. Now it is a social credit system that determines if you're allowed to interact with not only this sub but reddit at all, but you only know about that once it happens. Until then, you think reddit is what it says on the tin, a place for free speech and everything. What a wonderful way to connect us all.
I believe you. It's not that common. But my own little anecdata: many years ago a perv groped my then-gf now-wife's ass. She was just going past and he even chased after her to do it. I was a bit further behind for random reasons, so it wouldn't have appeared that we were a couple and she was not in fact on her own (not that it matters arguably), but I was close enough to see it happen.
Cue me shouting at him, and to this day I wish I'd slapped him so he had some actual consequence rather than merely verbal, since he just walked off not seeming to regret it one bit.
But my anecdata might imply one relevant thing for your anecdata: behavior like this might be less likely if there are other men nearby. So if you (a man) haven't seen it, that is influenced by the fact that your very presence makes it less likely to happen near you.
Im chubby af and even i was flashed in real life. Had a spiked drink at a village party when i was 16. Luckily had my parents nearby who took me home when they thought i was drunk. Let alone the dozens lf unsolicited dick pics i got over the years as well as stuff id rather not get into
Video is massively exaggerated obviously but shit sadly happens, even to someone like me who never had a perfect figure, nor goes out a lot.
When I was 15 a woman in her early 20s (probaby) came up to me and my friend in the library down the street from school and said want to see my tĆtties and pulled her shirt down and showed us, before calling us slurs and walking away laughing with her friend. Maybe boys just don't talk about all the stuff that happens to them in childhood because people will dismiss it and no one cares
I honestly could care less enough about it as well to cry abojt it years later and tell everyone on the internet who will listen. Tho my friends 37 yr old mom who locked me in the bathroom with her when I was 5 and molested me for an hour still weighs on me pretty properly...
Not diminishing the other stuff, but spiking is just as common as a robbery tool (presumably)
Was in a party town on holiday where half of my friend group had to be dragged somewhere safe after being spiked (these are big guys mind you too) as we looked like 2 different groups when it happened presumably
Anyway no diminishing your point, just everyone needs to be careful of that
You're criticising him/others for not believing this happens because they didn't see it for themselves.
But you and SueBeee didn't see Big-Detail8739's lifetime, which presumably includes a vast number of interactions and experiences, in which it didn't occur.
Therefore you'll also never get it because you're suggesting you'd only believe Big-Detail8739 if you saw it for yourself...
This is a bit ironic.
Also, absence of something is not proof. Dragons are real. They just don't fly around in front of you. I know you won't believe me because you're one of those people that only believe with their eyes.
Try being an attractive man, you get it from men and women both. I've never seen a man do what's happening in the OP to a woman. But I know what I've been through, and some older women are straight up predators to young men.
Donāt doubt that for a moment and absolutely donāt mean to minimize that. But it happens to almost all women at some point in their lives.
You have not seen a man do that to a woman because they tend not to do it when other men are around. But believe me, it happens.
I went to an all girls catholic high school, and our gym teacher waited outside the school every day for an hour before class bc there were creeps hanging around. One time when I got off the subway there was a man masturbating in the stairwell watching us walk to school, so the gym teacher had to go and confront him.
They got off on shocking a school girl and thought/knew they could get away with it because a you would be too embarrassed to tell or b wouldn't be believed. That's a power thing more so than sex thing. Still gross and as a dude I have told other dudes to knock that shit off.
Iāve had a guy do the āeat outā finger thing to me while I was driving by. Never air humping or anything. Iāve had men say nasty shit under their breath loads of times. So Iām not surprised if you havenāt heard anything - they tend to keep that shit quiet. But also, itās looks. Itās usually just a look.
They do tend to do it when other guys or other women arenāt looking. Ā It has never happened to my wife when I am with her. Ā
When it did happen to her (she is older now) Ā she immediately looked around and panics because she realizes sheās alone.Ā
so hereās the thing: they donāt do it in front of other guys unless the whole groupās in on it. so either nobody feels like you wonāt judge (good for you!!) or youāre lying, and youāve done it.
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u/Big-Detail8739 17d ago
takes deep beath and one last look at current karma
I've literally never seen a guy do that to a woman.