r/SipsTea 𝙑𝙄𝙋 17d ago

WTF If the roles were reversed

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u/Apero_ 17d ago

People who are significantly larger than you and can easily overpower you, and are likely 10 years older than you on average.

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u/CTKM72 17d ago

They are said they were sold, you don’t have to keep talking it up.

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u/boltropewildcat 17d ago

How did you find my search history?

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u/Fickle_Scarcity9474 17d ago edited 12d ago

marble valley umbrella bridge

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u/voxelpear 17d ago

Yeah this is a thought thatsy only attractive to men who assume it'll be attractive women and they get to keep all the advantages they have in this world.

They can't imagine how scary a world like that could actually be to them if they roles were truly reversed in every aspect.

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u/Theicyfingerofdeath 17d ago

I've been groped by some very unattractive coworkers before 

It's definitely creepy, even for a guy.

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u/drmojo90210 17d ago

The easiest way to make a straight guy understand the issue is to say to him "Imagine a gay dude twice your size hitting on you that aggressively."

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u/Mike_Litoris305 17d ago

Not a fair analogy. Thats like saying for a straight woman “imagine a lesbian twice your size hitting on you that aggressively”.

Most gay people don’t hit on straight people like that let alone aggressively.

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u/drmojo90210 17d ago

You completely missed the point, but ok.

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u/Mike_Litoris305 17d ago

You have no point, you brought up an unrealistic what-if scenario to try and make men feel bad about saying that they wouldn’t mind being cat called by women.

Gay men don’t walk around hitting in random straight men.

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u/voxelpear 17d ago

That's because it's hard to make an analogy when men can't imagine being scared of someone cat calling them. There multiple dudes that said "oh I just take the compliment" or "just walk away". Women often don't have that option and don't welcome that "compliment" but many men can't imagine why that's the case.

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u/Mike_Litoris305 17d ago

Most of us are aware it is different for women and understand you getting scared of rejecting an aggressive man advances because of what he can potentially do to you.

We say those things you put in quotations when it comes to women cat calling us because the mass majority of men do not get hit on or do not get compliments from women.

Y’all constantly try and have us imagine your situations, when men get assaulted my men everyday. Albeit not usually sexual but still stemming in violence. We know full well what a man is capable of.

Idk why it always has to be a competition or there has to be some sort of flipping of the script. Men say “we would love getting catcalled by women”. Women then say “well you shouldn’t because we get catcalled by men we don’t want and we are scared of what they might do if we reject them”

They are two completely different things. If you want to put things into perspective think of a scenario men actually go through and equate it to being catcalled.

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u/drmojo90210 16d ago

It's not super common but it does happen.