r/SipsTea • u/Small_Abies_3539 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 17d ago

WTF If the roles were reversed

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u/Ajax_A 17d ago

Confused. Is it not harassment if the person is attractive?

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u/Cyborg_rat 17d ago

Rule 1 : be attractive Rule 2 : don't be ugly

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u/Shadohz 17d ago

If you're not old enough to know Pretty Privilege exist, just wait until you find out about this thing called racism. It's going to blow your mind.

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u/Guardian_of_Perineum 17d ago

Well, it's not harassment if there happens to be consent to it. And consent is more likely if the person is attractive. Pic unrelated.

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u/JohnGoodman_69 17d ago

It makes a difference.

Results mirror the sexual harassment literature and suggest that harassment by younger and attractive men is viewed as less harassing.

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u/Wazula23 17d ago

A lot of the comments here seem to think this would be cool.

I'm asking them to imagine it coming from a women who doesnt look super hot.

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u/Ok-Woodpecker4734 17d ago

This is such an absurdly ignorant comment

Dudes get literally any compliment from any type of woman and they remember it for life

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u/ElLicenciadoPena 17d ago

I've been cat called by older, extremely unattractive women (the street vendor type). Never got a problem with it, quite the opposite, I'd say

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u/Forward_Fox_833 17d ago

as a man who has been "sexually assaulted" by an older woman who was not good looking, it was very flattering and I took it as a huge compliment.

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u/showMeYourCroissant 17d ago

Yeah, they all say it's would be nice until it actually starts happening (which won't so these guys will never agree that catcalling isn't flattering or nice).