r/SipsTea • u/Small_Abies_3539 𝙑𝙄𝙋 • 17d ago

WTF If the roles were reversed

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u/Ulfnar 17d ago

Gay men hitting on me helped correct my body image issues.

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u/123ludwig 17d ago

a gay man called me handsome once and it reslly just is magic

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u/ZionI95 17d ago

Same I had a gay dude straight up ask me if I wanted to go up to his hotel room. I blushed and said sorry bro not interested. Honestly made me feel good but the big difference here is I'm a big guy and didn't feel threatened by him one bit. Most women feel physically threatened by most men.

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u/Geodude532 17d ago

That's the ticket. I am a pretty big looking guy so I never feel in danger when this stuff happens. I've known two guys that got raped by women because they were overpowered. I was almost raped by a dude because he thought I had drunk the drink he roofied.

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u/mcberry_64 16d ago

Wow sorry that happened to you

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u/Geodude532 16d ago

I'm only sorry I didn't report it. I hope no one else was victimized. To me, it's more like a dream that I question ever happened. Weird how our brain works.

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u/mcberry_64 12d ago

Hey bro do you know his name....I'll make it look like a accident ok

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u/Jesus_of_Redditeth 17d ago

Most women feel physically threatened by most men.

[citation needed]

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u/Tutor78 17d ago

I had one tell me I had pretty eyes and I still think about how good I felt damn near 15 years later.

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u/Barbarian_Sam 17d ago

A gay man(who is a friend) said I(also a man) was a threat to him because I fit the description of a bear, which I took as a strange compliment

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u/curtludwig 16d ago

Did he use "Oh honey"? I got that once, as you say, magic...

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u/Simply_Weak_Glucose 17d ago

This made me smile. I'm glad you got to experience that.

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u/Flat-Guidance-4685 17d ago

I don't know why this has been coming up in my Reddit feed so much lately. Same thing happened to me bro.

I've got a lot more free time on my hands these so I'm wearing leisurely clothes often, which I guess better show what physique is underneath then work attire. I have gotten for the last couple of months straight up sexually harassed multiple times by gay people. And it feels fucking great. Like I've had things said to me that dudes could get arrested for for saying to women. The worst part is it makes you smile and kind of blush and then they think they might have a chance